Why are people jealous at me? Always??

Question

I am smart and intelligent. I am handsome - nice body and nice face. I am amusing when I am in company. I talk a lot, and I am a positive person. There are lot of people that want to hurt me in different ways- by telling that I don't know how to behave, insult my sexuality (which, until now:) is straight) etc. How to eliminate those nasty words and looks and the negative influence from the others in everyday life? Because, when I am at a party- I am the main figure there always, the most interesting person that is having lots of fun and don't care what the others think or say. But I can't stand it in everydays life. So help me .... somehow? Thanks:)

Answer 1

OF NOT AT

-_-'

Answer 2

Google: narcissistic personality disorder and see if the description fits you.  If it does, I highly recommend counseling.  

In fact, let me copy/paste it for you:

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a personality disorder defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV-R), the diagnostic classification system used in the United States, as "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy."[1]

The narcissist is described as turning inward for gratification rather than depending on others and as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power and prestige.[2] Narcissistic personality disorder can be caused by receiving excessive praise and criticism in childhood, particularly from parental figures.

Answer 3

ditto the top 2 also

ppl arent jealous "AT" you they are jealous "OF" you

Answer 4

Ohhhhhh what a martyr you are! Everyone should feel so sad for you.

What people are attacking you on yahoo answers?!?! More pity to you!

If you are really that great, than you shouldn't need the pity of others.

Answer 5

Uuuuh, yeah.  Also everybody's jealous of cornholio too.

Answer 6

13 direct references to yourself (I am, me, my). Many indirect references to yourself (..nice body...main figure...most interesting person...) and what is called 'a tell'  '...don't care what others think or say...'

You may feel charming, clever and witty but obviously others don't always share your view and clearly, despite the width and breadth yet meagre depth of your ego, this is starting to filter through.

Be polite and ask how others are, really listen to them, recognise people have many positive things to say if you are prepared to hear them. Apply this to everyday life sweetheart. If you you care about others as much as you care about yourself things will work out well.

Go on. Give it a try!

Answer 7

I wouldn't think its jealousy either.

i think people are annoyed of you by now. u need to turn it down a notch or two.

you're too in the face for peoples liking.

u need to remember ur not the only person in the world. let others enjoy the show too.

Answer 8

Insulting your sexuality is just wrong.

But for the rest of it I'd say, not everyone enjoys being in a room or at a party with someone who "talks a lot," and thinks they are "the main figure there," the "most interesting person," etc. It doesn't mean they are jealous of you.

Answer 9

they are probably jealous because of the way you are in all ways. they want to be like you, but since they cant, they try to bring you down and make you feel bad about yourself. just so they can make themselves feel good, and see you break down to make yourself be the opposite of everything you are now. so you should just be yourself. dont worry about other people and how they are towards you.  

Answer 10

You misunderstand. They're not saying you are g*y, they are saying you are "g*y". There's a difference.  

Answer 11

just don't think you're better than anyone else. you're there to have at a party and so is everyone else. if you have a big head and you think you're better than everyone else...people are gonna give you bad looks and a negative vibe. just be down-to-earth like everyone else. be cool but not too cool. and at a party..there's no one main figure unless you're the birthday boy/girl or the host/hostess. if i was at a party and you were there, i'd totally ignore you. and people aren't trying to hurt you, it's just criticsm to bring you down to a level where you head isn't so big. i think people look, talk, stare at me too..but everyone looks at everyone. so maybe you put yourself in this position, where you think "everyone is jealous" of you to make you feel better..but hey, if that's how you want to live..then don't be bother by "negative influence." everyone is trying to be themselves..but when people, you me anyone, see's a "cocky" guy..they will look at you funny. and for girls..if you look good and act dumb--boys will think you're ditsy and easy..

haha hope that makes sense..