Why are people like this...?

Question

It seems like people nowadays have absolutely no morale. Why do young woman look for men with experience, instead of a virgin? Not only that, but people assume an attractive guy isnt a virgin just because he's attractive! They probably are just aiming for better s*x, but for me..if I know a guy isnt a virgin and we're serious, it would haunt me. I dont want to think about my guy having s*x with some other girl...

And thats kinda how I feel about myself. I'm 17 and still a virgin, not only because I believe its the right way to go, but also because I dont want my future husband to be haunted thinking about me having s*x with another man. I'm with a guy right now and we're really really serious. Serious enough to wait for eachother..

I think thats how it should be....

Answer 1

Why do men look for women with experience?

If you don't want to think about the person you are dating having s*x with other women then you better quit dating now.  You are going to just drive yourself crazy.

What makes you think your future husband would feel haunted thinking about you being with other guys?

Why are you even worried about something like this at the age of 17?

"I'm with a guy right now and we're really really serious. Serious enough to wait for eachother..

I think thats how it should be.."- I say good for you then!

Answer 2

why do people need to share your same opinion?

Answer 3

hormones kick in. it gets crazy. guys get urges.. you wouldnt understand. parties happen. kids drink. things happen that aren't suppose to.

but im a virgin too, although i dont agree with everything you said, i do agree that s*x is something special and shouldnt be rushed