Why are people like this to him?

Question

My bf and I had our anniversary today, and while we were out

He called his co-workers to make sure they pay him the

right amount for his job. They had origonally said they would

over ride him $30, and for some reason he was ok with that.

I don't know why because HE was the one who got THEM the job,

and he has been working under the table for that company for

a really long time, and he had picked them from the streets and

helped them out to get a drug free job that paied a lot more than

they were getting at the job that he recruted them from. Since his boss got fired, he had to get them to work for the company so he could still work.

SO they are NOW saying they want to over ride him $60.

He was so upset, and yelling on the phone, and then the rest of the

day he was mad. He didn't go talk to them today because it's

our anniversary.

THEN we get to his parents house where we are staying, and his brother had gone in his rrom, while we were out and changed the fan with a diffrent one, and took my puppy out. He was mad, and they had two fights, and my bf always wins, but then the dad came out and was SCREAMING at my bf! His father has always been a jerk to him, and never sides with my bf... he told us to get out, but we haven't, and he is always telling us to get out, but we have been looking for a place that will take us and a puppy. My bf has NEVER done anything to his father! The other brother and his gf live there too, and they leave pee on the toilet, dishes everywhere, and blood in the trash can..

Why are ppl. always bad to my bf, when he doesn't do anything wrong?

*Thanks*

Answer 1

I think that it's because good, nice people are often conceived as weak and therefor are walked on by others that feel that they have power over them.

Answer 2

get rid of that puppy,

get any full time job

get your bf any full time job

in one month or after you both receive full pay checks move out.

neither of you are responsible enought to have a puppy right now.

get jobs, get a little money and get your place

Answer 3

Well, I don't get why are you living in their house if his relationship with his parents are already strained? Why do you need to add to this? And bring a puppy? Why can't you live separately till you get a place? If I have children no way both of them bring their gfs to live in my house with dogs. I don't get it, maybe that's the problem. How old are both of you? His parents can do anything they want in their own house, they told you to get out if you want, but you wouldn't...

Answer 4

First, if they were working on the books, that situation never would have happened.  That is a risk you take when you work under the table and he has no one to blame but himself.

Next, why are you living with his parents?  OMG....  Your bf has never done anything to your father?  How about moving his gf in and not taking the responsibility to get a stable legal money making job to support himself and you.  Like his dad really wants to support the two of you the rest of your life.

If you dont like others going into your room, get your own place!!