Why are people so blind in Friendships?

Question

If a friend talk **** about another friend behind their back, Why wouldn't he/she talk **** behind yours?

But I DO make judgment calls on where I stand with people based on their actions with others.

Alot of people are so blind

Answer 1

i normally don't socilize with anyone who passes judgment or talks about other people behind there back.. so i guess i'm not blind and i have very few friends.. but i can trust them 100%

Answer 2

It's not always judgment.

I criticize one of my best friends because he does a lot of stupid things that back-fire on him or get him into trouble.

And I do talk about him to other friends, but it doesn't mean I'm directly judging him or talking trash. Sometimes he deserves the criticism or else he'll never be aware of his wrong doing's.

Everyone's going to say something about you eventually, but don't worry about it too much, the people who usually tend to judge are the people who just aren't well informed.

If your friend talks negative about you to make you look bad, then it's not really a friend.