Why are people so difficult?

Question

can somebody ttry and explain this to me lol.

Answer 1

our egos run our lives

Answer 2

i dont know, im trying to figure that out too!

Answer 3

because we suck.end of story

Answer 4

Thats how we were made

Answer 5

If you find most people to be difficult, then YOU are the problem. People become difficult when they are faced with a problem. Could this be you?

By nature, MOST people are accommodating. Unless you cause a problem.  Check yourself next time and see if just maybe you are being a bit difficult yourself.

Answer 6

a mixture of some pretty odd influences.  

Movies have kind of made people feel there lives should have some beautiful script to it and they feel ripped off.  they just have a nine to five job with tv in between.

poor reading skills and comprehension has left people with a horrible vocabulary and cant fully express themselves the way they'd like to.  like you know kind of?

there are many drugs like cigarettes and coffee that make people feel like they have a monkey on there shoulder till they get there fix.  most rude people are probably one of these.

Family bonds have deteriorated so people lose the ability to relate to people because they don't many people to deeply relate to.  

and some people are just douche bags because of tramatic experiences when they were young.

There more reasons you can find out if you study people enough.  These are just a few big issues

Answer 7

Because they are resentful at the way life has treated them. They were probably bullied at school/work. Are of weak character and find it difficult to stand up to people so they come onto this site and try to act tough in the knowledge that no body can give them a slap or even shout at them. Pathetic little sickos who should be pitied.Addition, Told you so, you can read the answers of the misfits, Because I'm so tough I could crush a grape. I am a real mean son of a bi***h. Man I can beat up my granny before breakfast, yes Sirree -Bob  I sure am a mean dude. I can eat a hot dog without ketchup, wow, when you see me coming you better step aside a lot of Brownies didn't and a lot of Brownies died. Ha ha, they really are exceedingly hilarious broken down wimps. Hopefully you can see through their nonsense now.

Answer 8

Every humans mind is complex and different than others. People have their own goals and intentions that often clash with the people's that they regularly interact with. The result is difficulty in productive communication.

Answer 9

Because we are different.

Answer 10

because people are selfish and arrogant creatures and one day that selfishness and arrogance will destroy the human species as we know it

Answer 11

Because everyone has their own ideas and opinions and many people tend to think their way is the only way

Answer 12

This is just my personal observation, but there seems to be a growing sense of entitlement in people.  Nobody takes responsibility for their own problems, failures or mistakes -- it's always someone else's fault or someone else's responsibility to fix.  I think society is becoming very self-centered.  I'm so sick of dealing with people and I blame my job.  Never work at a police department....I'd rather lock myself in a broom closet and count nuts and bolts for a living.  haha

Answer 13

people are so difficult to provide you with an opportunity to make you a better person.

The person that cuts in front of you in the freeway, at a checkout counter, at airports, etc. All happens around you, (us) so that we can learn to not react. The momment we figure out that we are meant to learn how to stay calm, regardless of who is right or wrong, that is when we will notice how people are more easy going around.

We are going thru constant tests in life, every negative situation, is an opportunity for you/me/US to become a better person.

So next time someone is difficult, say thank you (inner voice), for the chance of becoming a better human being, by not reacting in a negative way (anger/rage/etc).

All the best

Answer 14

Sinful, selfish and greedy.....we only think of ourselves....unless you give your life over to God then you want to be more like Him and not be selfish but to be a servant to those around with love.