Why are people so judgemental and quick to talk about others??

Question

just curious..also when a person trys to put someone else down isit because of their own insecuritys..

Answer 1

people aare judgemental because of the way others look not because of their own insecuritys.

basically first impressions/

They think that if someones an emo they will like ONLY rock music when they can like ROCK but can LIKE inide and pop music too.

they think if someones a chav they can ONLY like rap but that isnt true.

they think if a kid is seen drinking alchol and drgs they blame the parents for letting them it werent them it as the kids for lettng them be presured.

if someones posh people think their sonbby because they can afford a £100 everyday to spend on shampoo and clothes.

if someone dresses like a spaka or a tramp people think she/hes a tramp stay away they might like dressing like that.

when people see kids walking on their own they blame the parents when the kids have probally been taking drugs ?

when people see a carcrash they blame it on the person walking what if the person in the car wasnt looking and wason his.her phone?

when people read a book they think its boring but when they actually read it it is interesting.

and many more.

people just need to take a brake and actually geet to knowsomeone better im learning to and i no that people arent what you first think

Answer 2

It is a lack of wisdom.

Answer 3

i dont think they do it because they cant get caught. if ur looking at it logically anyone has the same probability as everyone else of gettting caught or else there would be a formula for it and everyone would use it...

i think ppl like to talk about others because..well, i know a lot of the time they are afraid that others will talk about them because..yes kiddies, they themselves aint so crash hot. so if we all get together and talk about those people that are better than us, hopefully we can pull them down. then we can all feel like horrible people together.

yay

Answer 4

Because most can do it and think they will not get caught, &  your right they do it because they are insecure.

Answer 5

because they like to self-aggrandize and it is the most insecure people who need to walk on others, or bring them down, in order to make themselves feel good.

Answer 6

I learned along time ago, "Judge not, lest ye be judged", those that are quick to talk of others ,,,, to me,,, have nothing better to do with their lives, bored, no life to speak of , of their own.

YES!! if ppl got nothin to do but down others,,,is my opinion only, but must have insecurities of their own or feel little if no self worth and downing others make them feel better about themselves,,,,,,,,,,,,,this is all just my own opinion from experiences in my own life that I , like yourself, have found these as an only explanation for their "Gossip",,,,,, a lack of a life of their own.

Has seemed to me, in my own personal experience, that these ppl, have lost soo much, they have nothing to loose, so bringing others down, maybe makes them feel they make someone else go down to their own level, even if is by their own doing, and the other person involved is wronged by false allegations.