Why are people so quick to judge someone else ?

Question

My history teacher who is british got married to a US solider in the 70's, and they went back to the US got married and had two little girls. But when their marriage failed she had no choice but to go back to the UK and leave the little girls in the US with their dad . Any way when ever she goes back to the US , when they find her story out , they have deep dislike for her . In happens in the UK too , i cant understand why they think of her as a bad person , she did not want to leave them but she had no choice and she didn't abandon them completely , so why the judgment by everyone

Answer 1

Because its easy, point blank. Once you hear one bad thing about someone you've never met, its easy just to say 'I don't like them' based off of ONE thing you've heard about them. Its harder to actually try to get to know the person and understand why they did what they did even if it was wrong. I have done my share of wrongdoings like most people and this is why I try not to judge. The older I get the less I do it. I HATE when people judge me, so I don't like to do it to others. There is a reason for everything and there's always two sides to every story. Sorry your friend is judged like that. There is nothing you can do tho. Thats people for you.

Answer 2

I was kind of in a situation like this, and yes people have a tendency to think they are God and can actually judge other people. They can only they will be judged by God for the same thing they judge other people.

You can't stop people from judging. You can pray for them and share the right information with them and hope them will realize that we all go through issues and circumstances that call for us to make some decisions that later in life will be subject to other people's opinion and their close minded bias, knowing they don't know the truth.

So forgive those who judge you and know that with the measure they judge you they shall be judged.

Answer 3

people is so quick to judge someone else because they believe to the information, even it's small, that they have heard as a fact or true even though they don't know what really happen. it's just like gossips. pass a small information and the person suddenly believes in it and judges a person. we developed that mentality for a long period of time and is now part of the society.

Answer 4

Most people would go to the end of the earth to be with their children - yes, this story is realistic, but people want to hear about unconditional love.