Why are people that way?

Question

they are nice to you for few days then they change just like that without any reason. If I'm going to be that way I always have reasons where I came from and where I'm going.

Answer 1

I stay the same ,I am damaged goods and my moral compass is broken.

Answer 2

If they're only nice to you for a few days, then, don't give them what they want.

Answer 3

I knew someone like that before. I think it ran in their family because they had something cold inside like their aunt who worked there too. . Cold and negative complainers and greedy.Nice one day and cold the next. They picked the meanest people for their best friends but they act nice.The mean one makes them look even nicer but if they were really nice they would not be friends with the meanest one there.

Answer 4

It is very common for people to have what I call "inconsistent testimonies." by that I mean this: because most of us are carried about by our emotions rather taking control of them, we wind up breaking our own rules and displaying inconsistent behavior.

Answer 5

People change!

Life change.

events change.

But it's good that you stayed the same :-)

I usually say, "hi my friend, it's good to see you... the same."

I don't understand it either, but I guess it's human nature for some to change...

Answer 6

i know what you mean, just ignore them, i get sick and tired of dealing with people like that. one minute they like you then the next they think of you as annoying. whatever there not worth it

Answer 7

because people are people so in this case I know you are asking about a person that have a mental problem a lady name Karen at work that you've told me about she is retarded but not retarded enough to go on ssi she gets mad at you and trying to make you look stupid she's been spreading rumors trying to make everyone get mad at you and try to give you problems by making your job more difficult even though you were nice to her and train her how to do the job because she is slow and have a learning problem the time that she hates you because she is jealous of your normality which she can't never be she will freak out if she knows that you really got wings.

Answer 8

Bad communication

Answer 9

If you mean they are being mean tempered when they were nice before, ask them why.

If they are a new friend & just have not connected lately, maybe they have just been busy, again ask them.

Perhaps it is just a misunderstanding, but then either way you will know.

Blessings!

Answer 10

Um, could you possibly be more vague? What is this, a relationship question? Friendship question? Family question?

People you know are consistently good-natured and then they're not, spontaneously? It sounds like you need to stop hanging out with Bipolar people.

Answer 11

sometimes its like, people act different around new people, they dont be themselves. and as soon as they are comfortable you really know them for who they are.

someitmes its like, poeple just dont click after a bit, liek at first they seem nice, and its like you get along well with someone, and they are so nice, then they get to know each other more, and they just dont work, or one person isnt interested and they start being jerks.

then its also like, some people are complete morons and are all of a sudden just jerks.

idk thats what i think anyways. i have had that happen to me so many times, its just like, people who arent nice, are stupid, everyone knows that stupid people are just not nice. because if they were smart, they would know better right? and they wouldnt act like 5 year olds.  

Answer 12

Ego is "the devil" as it we might call it.

Those controlled by it (the EGO) are apt and more frequently in need of feeding it, because it is a hole that can NEVER be filled. Like a bottomless pit, if you will.

These "creatures" or types of people, as they are commonly mistaken for, are generally of low character and may in fact be substance abusers in some form or another (not limited to drugs and alcohol; material "junkies," prestige addicts, etc...).

Their low self esteem and feelings of lack of actual self worth, cause them, in response to the ego, to do such things as "bait" people, in attempt to gratify their own ego.

They'll act nice at first to those people they KNOW will attempt to be nice to them no matter how badly the egocentric people treat them, just so THEY have someone else to make them feel better about themselves, by treating decent and/or nice people badly.

Essentially these "people" are the lowest form of TRASH and THEY DO KNOW IT.

I live in a place where this is more frequent than any place I have ever lived and can say with some certainty that, there IS a COLLECTIVE that wants to keep YOU down.

Disregard them. They aren't worth your time.

They're not even really worth their own time.

Its not too far out of the realm of reality to say these types of "people" are NOT EVEN HUMAN.

They just want to smash up your LOVE Angel Baby!

Don't let them do it!

Answer 13

Most people like that are only nice to you when they want something.  Call them out on this issue.  If they are honest with you good, one way or the other you'll know if they are really your friend.

Answer 14

Maybe they have problems in their life and they going nervous and then behave like this.