Why are people ttc not BD every day????

Question

I have been looking at charts on fertilitygal and I notice the people that got pregnant have s*x more often and the bfn aren't doing it except day before and after ovulation...it seems like common sense but is there another reason?

Answer 1

it would lowerhis sperm count alsou dont want ur man to feel like a walking sperm machine  

Answer 2

The cycle I got a BFP we only had s*x the day of + OPK, the day after and the day after that. That was it, three days. We lost that baby and haven't been able to become pregnant again since. Last month we had s*x 9 days in a row at night, that didn't work. So this month, MONTH 10, we're doing it every 36 hours because I think we ran out of sperm last month. If this doesn't work (but I pray that it does) we'll try the 3 day thing again I guess (and maybe with some Preseed lube).

Answer 3

The man needs to be able to "replinish his supply". After so much it's like shoots blanks for lack of a better term..Waiting a day gives him time to get the good strong swimmers again.

Answer 4

Every day it tough for busy couples, sometimes DH and I have to schedule "dates" otherwise between his 60h workweek and my 80h workweek week we barely see each other.  

Answer 5

My Doctor had told me when trying to conceive you should BD every other day . . . she said count forward 14days to the Day of ovulation and then starting on that day mark off every other day and thats when you should do it. . . So we will see. . im 7 days late and waiting on a Positive test.

Answer 6

If you do it everyday it lowers the sperm count so you should only have s*x every 3 days but not to exceed 5 days. At least that is what the Dr told us. After the 5th day it starts to lower as well. Its all in the timing.  

Answer 7

sperm counts

Answer 8

I often wonder the same thing.  Doing it more often helped me get pregnant.  I guess it depends on the individuals involved.

Answer 9

I have heard that everyday can lower a man's sperm count also we don't do it everyday because it becomes to mechanical and the romance gets lost. I would have a hard time wanting to baby dance everyday. This month we are going to try to baby dance every other day that way we cover every day that I could be fertile and even that seems like a lot to me.