Why are relationships heartbreaking and stupid?

Question

I've been dumped by my girlfriend who I've been out with for months.

I spent money seeing her on train and buses, I gave her as much love and time as I could and now she's basically ripped my heart out and kicked it by saying I should find someone closer to home...Well, she was the only bloody one who I loved. I traveled miles to see her, I feel so d**n bad...Why are relationships g*y?

Answer 1

unfort sometimes that's life-sucks but true. this hurts for now, but you'll get over it and move on. don't let this experience ruin future relationships. clearly she was not right for you, better it ended now. you will see that in time. l've been there, but time heals and one day you'll meet someone right and deserving of you.

Answer 2

okay, i know ur hurting reely badly and ur feeling like it was all a huge waste of time that in the end left u heartbroken and lonley but think about this

did she ever spend a load of money trying to see u? if she didn't i don't think she ever reely liked u that much and do u reely want to waste even more time in a one way relationship?

long distance relationships are hard, i know, but they're NEVER going to work if only one of u is trying to make it work

try not to use this break up as a statement for every relationship coz there'll be someone who will want to see u as much as u want to see her

go out with mates and jst forget after a while it'll get easier nd easier =]