Why are so many guys and girls into pre-marital s*x?

Question

I really dont understand this,why cant they just wait till they are married,and y do they later run around asking for advice if they are pregnant and what do they do,how to go abt thgs? why all this stress on mind,a little patience can help alot in the long run? rite???

Answer 1

s*x is fun.

Answer 2

Not everyone believes in "no s*x before marriage" plus, s*x is just a fun act of nature, if a condom is used whats the harm?

Answer 3

You have to try before you buy!

s*x is Fun with some people and s*x is wonderful in a committed relationship, you don't have to be married to enjoy s*x.

Answer 4

it is mature thinking depends on education,society,custums unfortunately ignored by teenagers.

Answer 5

due to insecurity ,fear,loneliness,non relationship with parents ---it happened

Answer 6

It is adolscent age and there is little control over one's emotions, and s*x is fun which no other fun can replace. However it is wrong to have premarital s*x and it is prohibited in almost all religions.

Answer 7

I guess in your picture is that pre-marital s*x is a question of moral and ethics. Is it really wrong or immoral to have s*x before marriage or is it how society is conditioned? s*x is an expression of love or sometimes for the intention of lust. Nowadays, in the 21st century we have freedom to choose our lifestyle even to choose what we believe in. There are laws which governs and protects our society. s*x is not a crime. Condoms have been been invented to control the population rate so people can enjoy the sexual experiences. I believe you have the right to choose the lifestyle you want. If you want to wait until marriage, it's your body. However, I do not think religion should dictate people's lives.

Answer 8

due to the un proper brought up. they are spoiling her life . only solution to visit some yoga class for self control.

Answer 9

bcoz they dont know our culture, they dont respect there culture or rules, they dont know about health ,means hindu or muslim culture

Answer 10

Well, I'll just say I'm 14 at the moment, but I'm quite mature.

Basically, I'm going to say that it's the peer pressure and the fear of under-development and not "fitting in". I go to an all-girls school, so I guess I'm quite lucky in that I won't have that pressure.

I'm from an upper-class family (I say this because I seriously believe that opinions and attitudes to s*x [and other things] varies drastically as per your social class), and my mum has sat down and had a talk with me already about s*x and overall development. She's basically said if I have pre-marital s*x, I'll be written out of the will. Ha.

But seriously, I think it's the way your raised- if you're surrounded constantly with the opposite s*x (or, hey, the same s*x) then I guess you're going to naturally have the attractions when ydelicatelyand going through "hormonal episodes" (as my Mother delicatley puts it), but teenagers just need to realise that s*x isn't the be-all and end-all of life.

So basically, it's tanxieties of the media, the people at schools and just general anxietes about that area that can cause "guys and girls" to have pre-marital s*x.

Answer 11

Um, why does it matter if they use protection?

It's not my fault if a bunch of idiots try to have unprotected s*x and whine about being pregnant.

Answer 12

Dear friend,

God has created man & woman. He has also created a centre of gravity for attraction to each other. Its a natural phenonmenon, but many people control over this natural instinct till they are married. For this, little intteligence and understanding is required.

Answer 13

Well, s*x feels good, and they want to get experience. By the way, not rite.

Answer 14

Pre-marital s*x? Oh my, where do you come from? I don't intend to get married in any future and I'm a 25 year old woman who considers it's fine to have s*x without getting married. Better yet, I don't know if I ever get married. And if I would want to I'm sure I want to have a pretty good idea how my future husband is in bed so I won't need to file for divorce in a month.

Answer 15

It feels good.

Answer 16

s*x is fun. makes you feel alive. its natural.

Answer 17

Good question! Some factors to be blamed here are:

1. the media (pornographic materials are everywhere & it is within reach)

2. peer pressure

3. parents/family

4. environment where they grew up

5. poverty

6. lack of education

Answer 18

I guess times have changed, Its not like it use to be, plus I think alot of girls & boys want to try before they buy. They dont want someone that is bad in bed for the rest of there life. It also all depends on what they believe in. I dont like it how 13,14,15 year olds having s*x, In aus 16 is the Legal age. I hate teen pregnancy aswell, but its life!!

Answer 19

I think it has alot to do with peer pressure.

Answer 20

u r right. lack of education,culture,family,plays in this matter.In ancient tamil culture(may be in Indain)pre marital s*x was allowed because trustworthy people lived.once u had s*x u would bcome couple..(kandharva marriage). but we can't find or very hard to have any trustworthy partners now a days to enjoy love making.

Answer 21

You are absolutely right.

It is because of lack of knowledge / guidance, advice about the after effects of the s*x at an early age. Probably misguided by the present day movies, TV shows etc.

Moral Education is very essential for the children.

Morality comes and grows whereas money comes and goes.