Why are so many women so naive and foolish enough to believe that her husband wouldnt cheat if?

Question

He got the right opportunity like if a woman came on to him.

And ladies dont say your husband wouldn't cause you dont know that for sure.

To many women speak for their husbands.

Answer 1

Man women are book smart. But really they're just dumb at times. Not all but a good majority. Women are naive and foolish..and they know it. All you have to do is tell them so oh cheesy line and they would drop they're panties fast. But NOT ALL women tho..so dont get me wrong  

Answer 2

I'm not going to say whether my husband will or wouldn't cheat because I don't have the means to see into the future.  However, until I'm given reason to, I'm not going to sit here and brood about it either.  There are many more important things for me to worry about right now.

Answer 3

time speaks for itself in our marriage and in our relationship.  not once has he faltered.  Not all men are dogs, just as not all females are b!tches.    your outlook on life is sad,  so if this is your true opinion, what do you do with yourself?  hide in your own lil world?  your lack of companionship has turned you into a troll

Answer 4

You really need help, been in a 14 year relationship, never cheated EVER!  My wife is more likely to cheat than I would, I have been cheated on before and would never ever put someone thought that, prefer to end it first then move on.

Answer 5

Tip of the day; "Keep your man happy and he has no reason to stray"

That's if he is a good man in the first place. Men who are secure with themselves don't go out to prove they haven't lost "it". And for your women out there that use s*x as a weapon (like holding back to punish your man or get your way)that's a great recipe for him to start climbing over the fence. For the record men do not corner the market on cheating. Plenty of chicken- heads and sorry s****s out there giving it up out of both pant legs. You talk about Edwards and McCain like they raped those floozies. A man has to have a willing participant so when you're looking for a dog keep looking because you'll find a bit** right next to him...

Answer 6

idk....but i really dont think that  all men are like that

Answer 7

Any man is capable of cheating given the right situation. It doesn't mean they all will. Some men do have integrity and if they are happy and content, and have a supportive loving woman at home to help keep them strong, they can resist temptation. However, I do agree with you on one thing. No woman should ever say "I KNOW my many wouldn't cheat." You are fooling yourself and probably more easily fooled than most. After doing a 5 year study on internet relationships for a thesis...I can't tell you how many women have no clue that their husbands are cheating. The numbers are outrageously disturbing. And not just cheating with one girl, but on swinger sites, paying for hookers, having s*x with couples, etc...and then going home and sitting at the dinner table as if they just came home from a day at work. Be careful ladies. You can't live in a paranoid world, you would go crazy. You can only do the best you can do, make the choices you know are right, and trust your husband until he gives you a reason not to. But when he does give you a reason...wake up, get on it, and trust your gut instincts.  

Answer 8

yep i do think if a girl pursued a guy and teased him and stuff and the circumstances are just right and he is not getting enough attention at home or enough s*x i agree its going to happen!

Answer 9

There are lot of wise women out there who are secure within themself and relationship

Both s*x have opportunity to cheat

Wise people let their own spouses speak for themself

Some can and some can not be trusted

There is difference between cheating & looking

There is nothing like a scorn women

This is the time for a women to move on with her life and fine some peace

Answer 10

ok sorry for your problems but i trust my man and know for a fact that he wouldn't cheat, why? because I trust him and give him NO reason to cheat

Answer 11

My wife knows how to keep me faithful. I love her more than life itself and would never cheat.  My wife is honestly all I need to satisfy my lust for thrust. Sorry, but you're wrong.

Answer 12

  Of course I don't know for absolute certain.  That's where the whole trust and faith thing comes in.  You know, believing in something or someone when you really don't have all the information to know for certain it's true.  I'm hoping I've correctly gauged my husband's moral compass, but I may be wrong.  Not all men will go after a "hot" woman just because she's there just as not all women will go after an attractive man.  It has to do with their morals and values, so yes, it's possible to trust an untrustworthy person, but you can't use absolutes when you're talking about either gender.

Answer 13

Good response, Heather!

Answer 14

You shouldn't generalize all men like you do. I was married ten years and deprived the whole time and I didn't cheat. I once went 13 months without s*x. You just want to stereotype everyone because you attract losers. Good luck picking better!  

Answer 15

Everybody is different...Cheating is a terrible thing and it causes a lot of damage...

Sounds to me like you have been badly hurt in the past....

Have you considered getting help, and talking to someone?

Maybe a therapist or a counselor might help you to vent...

Another thing you might try to do is go to a support group...See if your local church has one.

Try to help yourself find peace. Try to let go of bitterness and anger...they will only make things worse and poison you from within.

Good luck.

Answer 16

i know mine wouldn't because he has come home and told me about another woman asking him out and how he explained to her he is happily married to a beautiful woman. and mother of his children.

Answer 17

Women do the same thing. Sometimes its material or monetary and they just didnt marry in the right tax bracket. I Agree on women speaking for husbands, But its a 2 way street on cheating.

Answer 18

Maybe if your husband was married to a hot chick he wouldn't go looking for one. By the way, hot can be defined in many ways, but, the bottom line is that couples that do HOT things together don't go looking for it somewhere else. Men who have hot s*x and good communication with their spouses don't cheat and neither do women who get the same. If there's any doubt in your mind about this, Google it. I suggest you try "The reason that men (or women for that matter) cheat". Then get back on  here and post the same question.  

Answer 19

Let it go, sweety.  If your husband cheated on you, shame on him, but don't let it turn you against every man.  Not all men are w***e mongers, really.

Answer 20

I really don't let it affect my thoughts. I can only control myself. I'm not any less of a woman if he cheats than if he doesn't. I would hope that my husband would love his family enough not to do that and disrepsect me. I've made it very clear how I feel. It is up to my husband how he reacts to a situation.