Why are some Mexican women/people so angry about me & Pedro??

Question

On a few occasions,Mexican women have asked my boyfriend why is not with a woman from a Spanish-Speaking Counrty/(I can speak a bit Spanish)This is very stupid.All races reside in South &Central America.(My Spanish teacher was a black men from Nicaruaga-Ramon)White Latinos see Tony Orlando,Gloria Estefan,Geraldo Rivera,Thalia Sodi,Shakira,Ricky Martin,Penelope Cruz,ect.Imagine how angry they would be if he brought home a black woman named Juanita from Cuba,Columbia,Panama,ect. Yes there are many black people in Souh America.I like Mexican men & my boyfriend really likes white women(guerras) he still likes mex women.What is the big deal?We all are all human.My family lives Pedro,yet his uncle continues to treat me sour.The key word here is SOME not all,WHY???P..S All people on Mexican are very white looking.I consider my boyfriend sort of Native American,he is an original Mexican

Answer 1

HEY IM MEXICAN!!! HIT ME UP!

Answer 2

Ignor them.  My hubby is Asian American, I'm Caucasian, no biggie. half his family are married to non-Asians.  Love is color-blind - maybe in the matter of having to listen to criticism about your relationship, it should be deaf and mute, too.

Answer 3

IF YOU ARE HAVING LOTS OF PROBLEMS LEAVE HIM, CAUSE YOU ARE LETTING EVERYTHING BROTHER YOU.... THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GET WITH ANOTHER RACE!!!!!!

Answer 4

maybe they are jealous.

Answer 5

I suggest that you watch the movie "Guess Who's Coming To Dinner?"  You'll find a lot of answers there.  Best of luck!!!

Answer 6

I wouldnt pay them much attention. They are probably just very traditional & haven't had much experience with interracial couples. They will have to get used to eventually!

Most women will have that problem anyway with the family....for one reason or another. My cousin had the same problem. She is Mexican born & raised in the US. Her boyfriend is Mexican...raised in Mexico. His family took a long time (4 years) before they approved of her bc she wasn't a "traditional" mexican women.

So yeah.....just be nice, dont mind them & they'll get over it!

Answer 7

I wouldnt concern myself with these women.  He selected you, you selected him and thats all that should matter...

Answer 8

Well, that's a very difficult question to answer.  I think it's because of the machismo that's prevelant in many Latino cultures.  I believe that people should treat each other with dignity and respect.  People have to see what comes from within rather than worry about what shows from without.  In short, you should never judge a book by its cover; what's inside is what counts.  And the more your friends realize that, the better it will be for all of you.

Answer 9

I am Mexican and my husband is white..my family had a little problem in the begining but you got to think of yourself and him..if he truly makes you happy ...and just learn some more spanish so you can hold a conversation with them...If you love him...they will have to learn to deal with it...Good luck

Answer 10

Maybe they feel that other races are taking there men? Idk the only thing i could think of. Love is Love no matter what color you are. We are all humans

Answer 11

My aunt is my mother's adopted sister. She is Chinese and her husband is Italian. When they got married his mother had a fit and at one point said to her that she should be "cleaning her (his mother's) house, not marrying her son". People are racist in ways you wouldn't believe and this world can be very ugly and intolerent of mixed race couples. If you love each other and really want to make it work, just ignore what the others say... in the end it's just you and him anyway.

Answer 12

Any body that hates a whole color just for being that color is nuts. Sounds like the Mexican Bill O'Reilly.

Answer 13

why are you wasting your time here worrying about it? there are ignorant people all over the earth....

My boyfriend is black.....and i could care less who thinks what, ....He will be my husband one day, ....so ...

..just forget about it.

Answer 14

I think its not your race its your attitude after reading all your questions on here!

Answer 15

They're just stupid. I am mexican & my skin is white & i think his family shouldn't have a problem.. How mean! If you were dating my brother, we'd all be nice to you, So dont assume all mexican people are like that..

& yeah, i live in mexico & it depends on where you go that you'll see different tones of skin, i live up north & i see more poeple with light skin that with dark.. But if you go south like Oaxaca or something you'll see that they're really dark..