Why are some people mean all the time?

Question

I don't understand those people who are mean and hateful every single day of their lives. i just don't understand it.

i have this boss.. shes such a hateful person, she has to keep going and keep going until ur completely miserable.. she won't be happy until everyone around her feels like dirt.

how can someone live every day of their life completely miserable?

Answer 1

Some people enjoy making others miserable. Pay no mind to them.

Answer 2

It is a shame but I know what you mean. Sometimes it is what they are use to being around. ( their family) Sometimes it's their own miserable fault. Can you get another job?

Answer 3

some people are miserable so they take their anger out on others.

Answer 4

Hi there and I think that this a great question. Some people have really terrible lives and can't cope with their problems as well as others.Or they do not want to change their situation so to make things better in their lives. Here is an example: A person is gong through a messy divorce so they take it out on others. These people cannot compartmentalize and therefore they take their own problems out on others. I have a feeling that I am not quite making myself clear and I am sorry for that but I just burned the heck out of my hand and am trying to type to take my mind off of my pain-but, like some people, I am not taking it out on you-lol! I know that I can explain this better but for now it is all that I have. Sorry again and ignore this person-half listen to what she says and let the other half go right through one ear and out the other. Remember that THEY are the one with the problem and it isn't you. Always remember that you are NOT dirt like this other person and if they scream think of a song that you like and sing it in your head while they scream away. Goodness, I am making a mess of this answer but I hope that you know what I mean.

Answer 5

change jobs!

Answer 6

idk. drugs?

Answer 7

You said it. They keep going and going until you are miserable. That is why they are like that. They are miserable and they hate if others are happy or feel good about themselves. They want everyone to be unhappy like them. They either have something bad going on in their lives or they are very insecure or both and want you to feel the same way so they are not alone. I guarantee if you started being an extremely negative person and mean to others, she would probably like you much better. The only way to get to people like that is to be really perky and not let them get you down. If they are rude, just smile and if you can't take it, just nod until they are finished and walk away. Don't show you are upset! Then they win! Also, for future reference, women bosses are not always that nice, especially if you are younger and prettier. That's just how it goes.