Why are the girls i like confusing?

Question

Well there is this girl i like. She is one of my friend's sister...and i didn't even think she was interested in me. But last weekend, she invited me over to her house and a few other people were there. And we started watching movies, and her and i started cuddling and stuff.

And then a few days later we did the same thing, cept it was just us 2. And she seemed really into me and everything.

But then her best friend came back home from the weekend and got all mad and everything that she was hanging out with me. Her best friend really likes me, but i've told her i don't like her that way....but that didn't stop her.

Her best friend got all pissed at me and this girl...and everything changed. The girl started getting more hesitant around me and wouldn't talk to me some of the time. Yesterday she said "i'm not ready for a relationship because of how bad my last one was...i don't want to get hurt again"

i didn't mind that because its understandable...but then today she gave me another line. "i just like you as a friend...i don't want to lead you on so i thought you should know that."

Now that doesn't really bother me either....its just that i thought she wanted a relationship with me the way she acted the last week until her friend came back home...so could it be her friend?

oh btw...the girl i like that is all confusing....shes kind of a flirt too so that might have something to do with it...

i don't know, can anyone enlighten me as to why this girl is confusing and stuff?

Answer 1

Maybe she doesn't want to risk the friendship of her best friend.

That's what I think but hey, she could've changed her mind or is a big flirt like you said....if you want to really know you should ask her directly.

Answer 2

it sounds like her friends talked her out of you. she's attracted to you, but she doesn't want to hurt her friend. if you really care that much, you could always calmly talk to her friend and try to work something out. but good luck.

her lines about not being ready for a relationship and liking you as a friend are just that... lines. don't read too much into them. normally when a guy hear those lines it's the girls nice way of letting the guy down. but with the brief history you mentioned, the case is different.

try staying her friend, but flirt with her a lot. tease her. if the attraction is actually there, she'll come around.

attraction is a powerful chemical reaction that is difficult to control. it's an emotion that can't be kept down. keep working your magic on her and eventually she'll be chasing after you.

oh, and it's not just the women you like that are confusing. it's all women. and they're really not that confusing. they're just the opposite of men... in every way.