“Adoptive mother, birthmother, natural mother, natural father, first mother, first father, biological mother, biological father, adoptee, biological kids, real parents, second parents etc. etc. etc†. I’m sure there are more, some politically correct, others not so.
Can adoption actually just be a process? For example, if you are describing how your child came to join your family, can you just say “through adoptionâ€Â, not “oh she’s adoptedâ€Â. When referring to his/her mother who gave birth to him/her, you could just say “his/her mother who gave birth to her†say at the beginning of the sentence to clarify who she is and then just use names to distinguish her from his/her other Mom, e.g. Mom Betty and Mom Sally.
I don’t really like my children being referred to as adoptees or myself as an adoptive mother. I’m just Mom and they are just my kids who also had another Mom (and Dad) before me.
What do people think?
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