Why are there some people rude in this world and they judge before they know the other person???

Question

Why are there some people rude in this world and they judge before they know the other person???

Answer 1

It is human nature to assess people.

If I were to look at you on the street and see that you wear a lot of black leather, have multiple facial piercings, a large amount of bare skin exposed and tattoos covering half your body, I would conclude that you and I probably have very different attitudes toward many things. That is making a judgement. It may be an incorrect judgement, but it's a slightly extreme example of a survival mechanism which allows us to cope with coming into contact with dozens or even hundreds of strangers every day.

Similarly, if I were to look at the middle-aged man in a neat, pinstriped business suit walking a few steps behind you, I would make a very different assessment of him.

There's nothing wrong with making those snap judgements. What is foolish is to forget that they are based on stereotypes and that it is always very unwise to assume that any one individual will fit neatly into any particular pigeon-hole.

People often express opinions based on superficialities because they are not wise enough to understand that surface appearances often belie the reality. That is their failing, not yours.

It can be very difficult to deal with such people, particularly when they are vindictive and persistent in their rudeness and criticism. In such cases, all a mature person can do is try to bear in mind that they are only demonstrating their ignorance and inability to see or understand who you really are. It's often the case that people are rude and judgemental when they encounter someone who makes them uncertain of their own values and raises questions in their mind about who they really are. Lashing out at such people - either physically or verbally - won't make them stop behaving as they do because it won't make them more maturely tolerant of people who seem to be different.

If you are the target of such people, it seems to me that all you can do is try to be certain in your own mind about your value as a unique human being. If others fail to understand that, then that is their failing, not yours.

Answer 2

It is the lazy mind in action. its easier to prejudge.

Answer 3

They are usually always the types that like to give it out but cannot take it.Just ignore them,you only give anyone only one chance these days,they are not worth knowing.

Answer 4

That's just human nature , it's really silly to judge someone but most people do it . Only one judges justly and that is God .

This is how God judges ,

Wisdom is the power to judge , based on making the soundest judgment possible , by using experience , knowledge and understanding .

No one has all the knowledge about someone , our parents know us , but even they don't know everything about us , and their Judgments are biased .

Man can only look at a snap shot of your life , and then make a judgment . That's like reading one sentence in a 10,000 page book and then claiming that you know the book from being to end .

People are stupid is they think they can do this , and most people are stupid , but when they do this , they just show how large a fool they really are .

Only God can see the book from the beginning to the end , and know why a person chose the paths of life they chose .

And why do they do it ? Because they are just plain evil hearted .