Why are these girls such b***hes to me?

Question

i play high school volleyball [freshman] and in the hallways during school ill say hi to any of the seniors or juniors or even sophomores and theyll just ignore me. sophomores they dont but any juniors or seniors will. there are 4 freshman on the team and theyll talk to the other 3 but not me, wahts their deal? im not some "uncool" person all my friends say im likeable and easy person to talk to why would they ignore me and not the others? its not cuz im a freshman or they would ignore them to

Answer 1

Ignore them back.  Don't kiss the a$$ that $hits on you.

Answer 2

Not to be mean but maybe you come on too strongly, or are you a suck up to the coach?  When I was a freshman a senior in my Physical training team was always hard on me, and it bothered me sooo much, I just worked super hard to show her I was good enough, and now she is like my best friend. Try to show them you are worthy enough to be on THEIR team.

Answer 3

To tell you the truth maybe they are jealous, either that or they might just not like something about you. But either way they should give you a little more courtesy and at least give you a hello. Their is a lot of stuck up people in high school. sorry.

Answer 4

Don't worry people can sometimes be very ignorant, since they probably know your a freshman they don't pay much attention but the more friends you make would be best on the long run they will start noticing you.. Remember it has nothing to do with you. keep your head up hi..

Answer 5

I'm guessing you are a girl?  If so, it's because they are jealous of your good looks.  If you're not so good looking then I wouldn't worry about it - don't bother with anyone who won't bother with you.

Answer 6

Maybe it's just because they don't know you as well as the other freshman?  I don't know but I doubt it's your fault.  Try not to let it bother you.  Your best bet is to talk to everyone kindly and naturally regardless of how they treat you and eventually maybe they'll notice what a nice person you are and treat you better.  Oh and make sure you never talk bad about anyone no matter how tempting it may be.  Good luck to you.  You might start a new trend on the team-- a trend of kindness.  And wouldn't that improve how well you function as a team?  

Answer 7

They are more likely jealous. These seniors may find you threatening because you play volleyball well, or maybe you are prettier than them. Another reason is that these girls probably want you to work for your 'respect' in school. They have experience this 'seniority' in school, while you are just a freshman. Don't worry about them. You can always make your own group of popular friends.

Best Wishes!  

Answer 8

yeah well thats your friends to them you may be a geek or uncool

Answer 9

Don't sweat what the other girls think of you. Just be yourself and don't try to impress others just for the sake of doing it. Not everyone is going to like you no matter how nice you are. The best thing you can do is be cool, don't overreact and don't talk smack behind their backs because it will get back around whether you know it or not. Find your true friends  who like you for who you are and stick with them through thick and thin.

Answer 10

ok.....well thanks for telling me ur a freshman!well i am guessing there only girls on ur team!well ur prettier than u think!and the girls r just jealous of u!and u a freshman....nothing is wrong with that it is just....ur a freshman and there juniors and seniors.....sophomores!which they r just like "i can't seen talking to u.....r saying hi to u!b/c u will make my friends think "why is she saying hi to her?she must be her friend!"omg gtg!"it is like that!i mean they r being b*****s yeah...but it is high school!evrybody is a *****!(not u!)they have to be some where!oh.....they don't ignore others!oh ok!hmmm....well it could be that u r being nice to them and sometimes ppl hate that!it is hard to explain!but do u see others saying hi to them?and u r!it is just they hate that!it gets on ppl nerves!i mean don't get me wrong....u should always be nice!just stay to:"i don't know u and u don't know me!soo i am not going to even say anything!"it is the same for them!hope this helps u!!:}}}}}!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Good Luck!!!:))))))

Answer 11

have you tried asking them if you have upset them in any way, not saying you have but sometimes we do things and dont realise its upset someone, if its nothing you have done then just dont let it get to you cause they are really not worth being your friend

Answer 12

Don't try too hard to fit in. Be yourself and ignore those b***hes.