Why are they all in love with me?

Question

Little kids (aged 11 under) are always like "OMG, you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen!" and like literally every little kid tells me that they are in love with me. Yesterday I had this 11 year old tell me that he secretly loved me and was too embarrassed to tell me before. And they don't say that to every "older woman" they meet! I've talked to their older sisters or brothers and they all tell me I'm like the only person they've said that too. Should I be flattered or insulted?

I am almost 14 years old and I have had only three guys my age tell me that I was hott and beautiful, while like 30 little kids have told me that. I have gone out with 6 guys and only one of them has told me that I was so hott and gorgeous. Actually, my ex told me that I was like the ugliest girl he had ever seen!

Is there something wrong with me? Like why do all of these little kids love me so much? Why don't people my age tell my I look pretty?

Answer 1

i think you probably are pretty but all the guys at your age are too scared to even ask you out because you're too pretty. :)

Answer 2

Have you considered that perhaps these little kids really do "see" you as a beautiful person (on the inside, not necessarily the outside)?

Small children are a lot like animals in that their primal instincts are pure and clean because they havn't yet been "socialised" into having prejudices and biaises that we all inevitably are exposed to (and many of us adopt, unfortunately) as we get older.  Kids really do "see" things as they are, not as they would like them to be or as society in general says they should be.

When you date a guy, you immediately bring into play issues such as sexual attraction etc., all of which are primarily based on physical appearance - at least to start with anyway.  Often this is all teenagers and adults see (or want to see) and they make judgements accordingly.

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder - and all these little kids can't be wrong.  You obviously are a "beautiful" person where it really counts, and what you look like physically is really a secondary consideration.  

Stop worrying about it and continue to be the obviously "beautiful" person that you are.

Answer 3

you probly are a very beautiful girl and the guys your age are to shy to tell you face to face unlike young kids (the 11yr olds) wich havent developed a strong feeling of embarassment or pride yet. ps im only 15

Answer 4

that happens to me too! last year there was this grade 5 and he kept asking me out every day and saying how hot and s**y i was. I guess they do that because they just like older more mature girls. Just ignore it. And for guys your age not saying your pretty they prolly are just not as open as the little kids.

Answer 5

I don't know if you're doing this to get a laugh, just bragging, or if this is a real question.

Why would that be a insult?

EDIT: So because of their height and age, you think it's a insult?

Answer 6

because they to afraid to see it

Answer 7

Because you have grown b***s and they want them. Now give it to them or GTFO

Answer 8

Good 4 you :-)

Answer 9

How could you be insulted for someone at any age telling you that you are beautiful?  My guess is that they boys are havingthei first crush on you, and that is really sweet.  Some boys mature in ways before others do, and it have been proven that girls generally physically and emotionally mature faster than boys, so I would say they probably are infatuated with you rather than being in love.  I'm aslo guessing tha you don't trat them like they are used to being treated by other older kids in their lives.

Answer 10

little kids telling you that you look beautiful? disgusting.

and the reason guys ur age dont tell u yer gorgeous, is probably b/c yer not to them.