Why are they so mad?

Question

well last night my best friend and were hanging out with these two boys.

there in grade 11 and were in grade 9.

it was SO much fun! we were gonna see a movie but it was sold out so we just toured my town. we went to mcdonalds, dairy queen, the mall and finally down to the docks where we splashed around in the water lol

well when my parents came to pick us up and saw who we were with they flipped out at me!

i dont see how its a big deal..

what do you guys think?

Answer 1

I always hung out with older guys, but it is normal for parents to be skepitcal. There are a lot of older guys that hang out with young girls just so they can get some. Talk to your parents and ask them what is wrong. See if the guys could maybe come over to meet your parents so that they can get to know them.

Answer 2

Um...

If I were a parent, I'd probably be worried that my little grade 9 daughter was hanging around these grade 11 boys, but I'm not a parent, so I'm okay with it.  I mean, a lot of grade 11 boys date grade 9 girls, so whatever.  

There's nothing bad about grade 11 boys.  Most of the ones I know are very sweet and would never hurt or take advantage of a girl.  But that doesn't go for every guy.  Are these just guys you met randomly? If yeah, then just be aware, but other than that, I don't see a problem if nothing you weren't uncomfortable with whatever you did and what happened that day.

I think this is kind of like the swings thing.  Parents always thing their baby isn't holding on tight enough to the ropes on the swing, but seriously, kids know what they're capable of. They know when to hold on and let go.

Answer 3

I think all parents are gonna get paranoid cuase they dont want something to happen to u so i think its normal and they just dont get it

Answer 4

Well if you think about it, you are only two years apart, which in the grand scheme of things isn't much. But, think of it this way, if your teenage daughter was out really late with 2 high school boys that were 2 years older than her, wouldn't you be a little angry. I would cut your parents some slack... : ) I get why you would be mad at them for freaking out though!

Answer 5

I'm guessing you're 14 or so.  These boys were 16/17?

That's a recipe for disaster.

Boys that age are only thinking of one thing...s*x.

You need to watch out, your parents were just worried about your safety.

Next time I'd let them know who you are with.  It will keep them off your back, and you safer in the long run.

Answer 6

Maybe your parents didn't like the idea of you hanging out with older guys. Or it could be that they expected you to tell them who you were hanging out with and you didn't and it upset them.

Answer 7

Your parents were afraid for your safety and showed their fear through anger. As a parent, if they don't know exactly where their child is and who they are with, they fear the worst.

And guys usually only want one thing, so any parent who has a daughter is twice as scared for the daughters safety and well being. Some boys will do whatever it takes to get what they want, these types of boys are sick and crazy.

Also parents know its a sick and dangerous world we live in. Their worst fear is having the police show up because they found their childs body in the river because some sick serial rapists/murder abducted their daughter that night from a local mcdonalds. Thats there worst fear, so please don't be offended when they get mad,at least they care.

Answer 8

you know parents!

they always freak out when they see their daughters with boyss lol.

hey thats how they're programmed to act haha :)