Why are women always trying to hide their sexual feelings (or they have them in the first place)?

Question

for example, a previous question was asked about multiple orgasms, but noone responded. However, if a sincere question was asked about male orgasms, I and many other males would have answered.

Answer 1

Women are not always tring to hide. They love s*x as much as a man sometimes even more. There is a right time , a right place, and someone they totally trust and respect. respect is important to a women. also men think opposite from your normal though. Think of totally pleasing her and you will have no problems with her taking care of you. Men be careful they may get to be to aggressive for you. This does not make them a ho or sleaze or anything It makes them all beautiful. and a total women. whisper in their ears what they want to hear Men .They will respond . make them total women.

Answer 2

Maybe because many women suspect that the people asking the questions are really men, and that they men intend to get off over the answers.

Men will brag about s*x to other men, but women don't really want to do that.

Answer 3

Because historical oppression and sexual repression against women still be a part of actual society :

limitation of education=discrimination.

Answer 4

were not hiding anything... we jus no theres lots more to life than wats between our legs....  we women dont spend all day constantly thinking bout s*x like u guys do...  we have real lifes...

.... an a big thumbs up to paintedhorse30....

Answer 5

That would be the view imposed on society that Men who talk about s*x/do it often are 'cool' and women who talk about s*x/do it often are considered 'wh***s.'

That's your answer right there, clean and simple. No one wants to be a 'ho ;)

Answer 6

woman have been placed in the social position of maintaining civilized behavior. without some modicum of control, we as animals would be "doing it" in the front yard and on the bus. being sexual means being responsible, and it's responsible for woman to not put their butts up into the air when ever they want.

Answer 7

A lot of women actually are uneducated about their sexuality, and they won't talk about it, which prevents others from becoming educated about their sexuality, and round and round we go.  I talk about s*x all the time, even lightly with my mother when I see her and she always says "well, I don't really think we should talk about this."  So, I try to make s*x a comfortable topic but a lot of women shush me or won't share.  My own 19 year old sister who's never had an o****m thinks it's "gross" and "weird" to m********e, even though I've talked about it all with her many times in a comfortable, non-threatening way, and even bought her a vibrator when she was 16 just in case she wanted to use it.

Answer 8

A) This is the wrong section for that question , if it is indeed serious - the health section would be more appropriate

B) The question appears trollish - it even solicits email which is a violation of the TOS

C) Female sexuality has been so exploited in the media, no smart woman is willing to give away such  content for free

Answer 9

Partly, the reason for women's reticence on s*x is the traditional culture in which men who had s*x were glamorous, but in which women who had s*x became the subject of malicious gossip. Virgin women were prizes to be taken (after which their value was much reduced). Successful men were men who had taken many of those prizes.

But tradition isn't the whole story. To some extent, the patriarchal tradition did not so much as create values as recognize where value lay. Whereas both men and women improve with experience, at least up to a point, men pay less physical toll for their technical improvement than women do. Women get stretched out and used up, and they don't age as well as men do.

And yet another reason for women's not wanting to talk about s*x is mercantilism. By silence, they seem mysterious, unreachable by any man but the most worthy. They get men to put them up on a pedestal as if they were a goddess to be worshiped. By holding the one thing they can contribute to the happiness of a relationship, they create the illusion that it's much more valuable than it really is. And the reason lots of women hate and vilify whores is that whores undersell them, cutting the market out from under them and hampering their hard-to-get games.

Answer 10

It's not that I am trying to hide my sexual feelings, I just don't want to be the source for  some little boy getting his  jollies.  I don't feel the need to tell complete strangers how I like it done.

Answer 11

For centuries women and girls were kept ignorant of sexual anything and valued for their virginity...innocence in all sexual matters. It is hard to overcome centuries of indoctrination.."nice girls don't..." and that includes knowledge of and discussion of our own sexuality. Luckily this is changing, but history is hard to discard.

Answer 12

I think women are very comfortable discussing sexual feeling with their partners as well as friends and possibly close family members.  However I do think women feel it is some what of a private matter, not to be broadcast to the world.  Men tend to be just the opposite, able to discuss overall sexual feelings with strangers but unable to discuss them intimately with those close to them.

You may also take into consideration the nature of the question.  Was it for serious answers by a questioner who was looking for ones true opinion and experiences or were there other motives involved by some perv?

Answer 13

Not wishing to tell a strange troll looking for thrills about our s*x lives on an Internet chat board is not "hiding our sexual feelings," Pumpkin.

Answer 14

Well... woman aren't open about that kind of stuff, like Males are. Some are don't get me wrong, but most of us woman prefer not to talk about it; unless it was with out partner or something.

Answer 15

Women just aren't as obssessed with s*x like men are.  They don't absolutely live for it.  A woman thinks with her brains.

Answer 16

I will answer any of those types of questions. I love sharing my sexual feelings to compare them to other women's because then I know they are normal! Also, I don't think you can have a good relationship unless you can be completely honest about how you feel about several things. You have to do this so you can get complete enjoyment and comfort.

Answer 17

Why don't you ask about male orgasms?

Answer 18

TerminatorX – trust me on this there is nothing to know, don’t worry about it

You could be on this kind of thinking all of your life

What do you usually get?.... "Women just aren't as obssessed with s*x like men are. They don't absolutely live for it. A woman thinks with her brains"

this is what you will 'MOSTLY' get, from women

MEN have never suffered from lack of knowledge in this area. OK

We just have to understand, what women need and want from a man

They crave attention, they are desperate for love, and they need money!!!

When your woman thinks you are able to supply any or all of these, all of the s*x in the world is yours, they will even be your bouncy, bouncy bunny.

She will do ANYTHING, that is anything, get it. OK

NOW stop worrying about women on this, who the heck cares what they say, or do, JUST be yourself and take what you need.....

Be a MAN, its your RIGHTS!!