Why are women are all over men once they find out they're married?

Question

Can't they find their own?

Answer 1

it goes both ways.. I think it begins because when they start talking, they are not worried about the pressure of the married hitting on them.. I know, some do and don't care.. but I think they feel comfortable around them.. people act differently if they are single and "looking" for someone than a married that is just out talking to people.. people project a certain energy...  

Answer 2

This has never been something I've done but I get what you're saying.

I'm guessing it's a way to test just how attractive they are-- "If I can get this guy away from his wife then I must really be something"

Something along those lines.

I like to think most married men are smart and honest enough to realize that it's just a game and not want to take the chance of ruining his marriage.- I hope so at least

Answer 3

why do married men give in to these women?

Answer 4

B/C they can't find their own man. I for one can't stand a girl(not women) become my marriage. You bet I will put up a fight. I would let her know exactly how I feel. Sometime online games like (LOR) comes between a marriage too. Like my husband is addicted to this game. They need to make it where girls can only play with girls and guys can only play with guys. As you can tell I don't like online gaming.

Answer 5

Have you ever wondered how women that sleep with married men live with themselves? I can’t imagen it, I mean, if you’ve ever been married, especially for a long period of time, you must have an idea what it must feel like , even with just the thought of it. How devastating. And why..... on earth would you ever want to do that to another woman? I mean, just totally disrupt their life, ruin all sort’s of thing...Ya know? I don’t get it. But there are them marraiges that are strong enough to make it through something like that, and I admire them completely!! But, even then, the thought’s,the feelings,the worries....I do have too say that I don’t think I could hold my temper or my patience, as a matter of fact, I know I couldnt. There’s no way, as far as being ’the wife’ ya know? Thank God that I have been blessed with a husband that I don’t have too worry about that stuff. I thank my lucky stars each and every day. I am so very lucky. But anyway...I just don’t understand. You would think that "Us women" would understand each other, and with that being said, wouldn’t put the other through something that will be on our minds in every relationship. But I guess there are those of them who either [Number 1]:Dont care or [Number 2]: Dont understand the affects of consequences such a Karma! But I do know that woman who do stuff like that, are not happy with themselves and don’t believe that they deserve a man of their own, apperantly they think that ’sharing’ a man with his wife is all they are worthy of, and that’s sad. If I’m gonna have a man, he’s gonna be ALL mine, and not be ’stolen’[for lack of a better word] from his wife. I deserve better than that. And I also deserve to come by him honestly, not by home wrecking. BUT the best revenge, I believe, when a woman steals your husband, is too let her keep him, because IF HE WILL DO IT !WITH! YOU, HE WILL DO IT !TOO! YOU!!! And another thing, I guess it has to be a ’class factor’ ya know, there are certain things that come with having a little class, and thats one of them, too keep your hands off of married men. But it’s very sad that some women don’t understand that, at all. But in the long run, it catches them. And as I said before, those marraiges that make it, GOD BLESS YOU! and I hope your stronger than ever! It takes a REAL woman to not do things like that, and to use the right judgement when it comes to them things. And you have to be strong, strong enough to avoid it and strong enough to know the difference between feeding the spirit and feeding the body. So, too me, and those women who DON’T do things, like sleep with married men, May God Bless You, and he will, because he notices the little things!

Answer 6

Because some women are dumb azz whores with zero self esteem.

Next question!

Answer 7

Because some women find it exciting and a boost to their ego to take a man from another women the longer, closer and more of a bond they brake up the bigger the head rush or pat on the back is for them just like some men.

Answer 8

Human nature is to want what we can't have. The forbidden fruit tastes sweeter.

Answer 9

same goes for married women...it's like they don't even see the ring, and when you tell them, they act like they don't care!  it's very disgusting.

Answer 10

I guess they figuare all the good men are taken,, so they want to take one,,   And there are female player out there too,, They build their self esteem on how many men they can get to leave their wives for them... And not to forget the real problem,,, the husbands that want a ego boost (because their wives have learned what their husband is really like)  Thes men seem to look even harder for some one to cheat with,,, It takes two  even if one is a liar, it still takes two.

Answer 11

They are? What women are you talking about?

Answer 12

Its the fact that once they are married the men are now seen as "Someone good enough to marry."

OR

the woman is a huge w***e and gets turned on by men she is "not supposed to have".

its one or the other...

Answer 13

Ladies, it’s time to get hip to the game!  So let me school you…

I am recently divorced.  While married I made a point of seeking out other married couples to socialize with, thinking this would strengthen my union.

Abruptly after we separated, not even divorced at this point, a lot of my married male friends, whose wives and kids and families I know, started to come on to me.  They started lying like it was nothing, how they are unhappy, they’re in it for the kids, all they want is me, ect.  I know these men and their situations; they are not suffering in their marriages by a long shot.  Then they got made at me for being appalled and showing no interest.

Then I started seeking out single female friends after the ink had dried on the papers.  A lot of the single women I met were involved with married men and completely brought into all the lies they were being told.  A few of them didn’t know the man was married until recently or “after they fell in love, had his child, and the rest.”  Generally it was after some sort of dependency had been established that the man came clean about his married status.

Very rarely in my experience have I run into a woman who intentionally sought to acquire a married man to boost their self-esteem or for some sort of lure of the forbidden, think about it.  Very often I’ve had married men confess that they’ve cheated to boost their self-esteem or for some sort of lure of the forbidden.  

Ladies, it’s time to get hip to the game!  It’s not the other woman s******g you over, most of the time, it is your own man, s******g the both of you. (pun intended)

Answer 14

Women aren't.  s****s are.  I wouldn't even consider having anything to do with a married man.

Answer 15

I shook my head when i read this question. I am a single woman and i say married men tend to hunt us down. I know there are women out there that will go after a married men. But you seem to be grouping us all the same, which is so wrong. From what i have experienced its the married men who come looking, telling us one lie after the other to have a relationship with us. Everyone seems to get angry and hostile toward the other woman, when they should be looking at the man instead. He knows he is married, he is the one who took the vows. Did the other woman force him down and make him have s*x with her? NO she didnt. I find most married men are relentless is their pursuit of it.

Answer 16

because they re so stupid and quite franklly they discussed me . also some of them dont even mind if he is with the kids . whewwwwwwwww

Answer 17

Because its human nature to want what you cant have.  Some women like a challenge and it boosts their ego when they are able to pry a married man from his wife.  Almost makes em feel powerful.

Answer 18

I see this question every so often here, and, as a long-term married man, I want to know - where are these women???

Answer 19

Just for the record it takes two to cheat and 2 - to answer your question, some go after a married for the thrill of the chase or because they are gold diggers.

Answer 20

Once they see something that they can't have, they want it more than ever.

Answer 21

Only some women are like this.  I am a single woman and I am not like this at all.  However, I have been contacted by a lot of men on the internet and out at public functions.  They seem like attractive men.  At first some of them seem intelligent.  Somehow I usually find out that they are married.  So, then I say I am not interested.  Then they say, true "I'm married, but we're basically just living together.  We haven't been happy in years."  They get mad at me for not wanting to carry on a relationship with them anyway.  They get really upset if I suggest how much their wives must be hurting.  All of these married men who contact single women eventually try to convince these single women that it's ok because the wives at home know about it.  Excuse me but I don't care if his wife does know he's cheating and approves it still doesn't make what he's doing right.  Some women may think it's cute to be with a married man, but please do not make a general statement about women.  And, another thing before you go blaming women be sure to check where your husbands have been and how they have been behaving.  Married men are not the angels this question is making them out to be.  Oh, and if you've been married long enough to have teenage sons take a look at what they are doing too.  A lot of times they learn from their cheating fathers and they try to get women who are much too old for them to date them.  If women decline then these little boys get rude and disrespectful.  I have even encountered both married men and teenage boys on the internet who after getting the word no have stooped to calling their own mothers and grandmothers whores.

Again, I'm reading some of the other responses.  And everyone is acting as if these married men are all innocent.  Do not excuse the behavior of these married men.  Trust me these married men go looking.  Not all women have the willpower that I have.  Not all women can tell them no.  But if you're a married woman looking to place blame on who is "DOING THIS TO YOU", look at the person who is sharing your bed and telling you lies.  Everyone wants to blame only the women who are sayign yes, but don't forget to blame the married men who are cheating.  Becasue right up front these men know they shouldn't be leading other women on.  They know that other than a little harmless flirting they shouldn't be carrying on in inappropriate ways with other women.  And I say innocent flirting because I am not so naive as to think that married men and women do not flirt at all.  However, it's when it moves pass the innocent that it becomes a problem.  It is ashame though that whenever these questions come up everyone wants to place sole blame on the single people.  The single people who carry on this way maybe wrong, but so are the married people.  These married men have made committments to their wives.  Now they are cheating and getting away with it because all you people can do is blame the singles.  IT TAKES TWO!   IT TAKES TWO!

Oh yes there are certain things that are less classy than others.  And these married men telling lies to single women shows no class at all.  These married men cheating on their wives shows no class at all.  The single women who choose to actually carry on relatiosnhips with married men may have no class, but it's not like the married men they are choosing to be with have any class.  If you are going to suggest that people have no class make sure you are putting just as much blame on the married men as you are putting on the single women.  Like I said before, IT TAKES TWO!  IT TAKES TWO!