Why are women like this?

Question

I've dated three girls, and those three gave me almost the same responses when we broke up.

With all the “I can’t wait to be you”, “I can’t live without you”, “You are everything to me”, “You complete me”, "I don't know what to do without you", "I only live for you", "I don't want you to leave me" that have turned into now what seems to be as empty and hallow words.

In the end:

My first ex told me, "I'm not yet ready for a relationship"

My second one told me, "I thought I really love you but I didn't"

Finally, my third one said, "I don't know what I want...I love you but I'm not ready"

Why are women, at least the women that I've dated, like this? They told you all those beautiful things, and then, they step on them later on? I simply don't understand...

This kind of scares me. I don't know if I can open up for the next person.

Answer 1

I don't think that the problem that you have encountered is just women who do this but I think its people who are just confused to begin with or they are scared of commitment. Its amazing how people can tell you things like that and then in the end the words to them meant nothing. I think in the moment they may have meant it but it was all in the moment.

But my advice to you is not to give up. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there. You will meet the lady that when she says those things to you will mean them with her whole being and you will be glad that the other relationships ended.

I once heard a quote that said, 'the reason you go through bad relationship is to appreciate the good one even more'

So don't give up, love is out there waiting for you.