Why are women so hesitant to admit to....THE M WORD!?

Question

Why are women so hesitant to admit that self-pleasuring is ok. It is ok, isn't it? It's ok for guys to do it, right? So why not for girls? I am VERY new to all this self-pleasuring stuff and I wish there was a way that I could learn more about it. But I just don't know like what all there is that's involved with it. Toys? Hands? Can anybody help? Any suggestions?

Answer 1

Just go experiment and quit bothering us about it . please!

Answer 2

Two words: Betty Dodson.

Answer 3

because its still not widely accepted, there are so many culture that wouldn't dream of doing it (let alone admit it) because they're told if they do they're sinful, and that their body is evil.

I like it, but I don't go around bragging about it, or talk about it in public...or to anyone really

Answer 4

Guys are hesitant to admit to it too.  It's a private behavior, that's why, but yes, it's something most people do.

Answer 5

Why are women hesitant to *admit* it? Maybe they just don't want to talk to YOU about it. You'd be suprised how often I see women bring it up in casual conversation...

Answer 6

There are some things that should be private.    I know in this era of s*x tapes on the internet and girls gone wild videos thats hard to believe but there are limits as to what people need to share with others.

Answer 7

My feeling tells me that you are an old perverted man hiding behind the nickname of Amy.  Go get your rocks off somewhere else pervert!

Answer 8

well, I don't know how old you are, but for young teenagers I'd advise purely external stimulation (of the clitoris), until you're comfortable with your body and comfortable with the idea of inserting anything into yourself.  Then I'd recommend fingering yourself, then once you get used to it you can gradually move up to a slightly larger object.

Answer 9

It's not seen as socially acceptable to talk about, it's true. But just look at the websites you'll find loads of info. Everyone does it!

Answer 10

How should that make or break your sexual playtime? I don't see any correlation.