Why are women so wishy-washy?

Question

I know everyone gets bad moods. I do too. But you can't take it out on others! My g/f treats me like I'm the best thing in her life on some days. On other days, I think she couldn't care less if I disappeared. I honestly don't see any kind of pattern or cause. Are all women like this???????

Answer 1

my boyfriend says the same exact thing to me every day.  If shes still with you, she still love you. i promise. she wouldnt be with you otherwise. theres no pattern or consistency to learn.  you just have to learn how to let her take it out on you and not take it to personally.  

Answer 2

For your answer, men and women are all alike, we are all "moody", and I really do not think there is such a thing as a woman or a man in a reliable, consistent mood.

We are all human, and we all get moody.

I have not yet met a man in my lifetime who is always in a reliable, consistent, mood, my husband, is not that way either!

I tell ya, he gets on that time of the month sometimes, hormones, I mean, LOL, not the other stuff!!!!

Like last night for instance!

So, for your answer, we are all "moody".

Answer 3

This complaint sure seems firmiliar, I have the same problem at home with my boyfriend of over 2 Years!!  

Answer 4

I'm myself am complicated and my husband would be the first to say so.  If you did nothing to cause her conduct towards you.  Them you need to talk to her about it.   About how it's causing you to feel resentful.

Answer 5

One word.  Hormones.

Answer 6

That's why you NEVER live with a woman, that way you only see each other on her good days, then when she's having her little issues, you move to the next name on your roster and you see that woman a few times and you keep rotating through your roster like a baseball team rotates pitchers.

Answer 7

Yes of course there is hun. You just need to be understanding and loving. WHAT THE **** ARE YOU ASKING ANY WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

hehehe nope!! my husband claims this on me too.. he says im too quiet sometimes and i act like i dont love him, but honestly, i DO love him more than anything in the world, but i guess i just dont show it all the time..sorry to burst your bubble but its true :[

Answer 9

the real question is ... is there any person on earth with a RELIABLE, CONSISTENT mood.... of course  not people have bad and good days give her a break and treat her good  

Answer 10

There are those kinds of women...question is why are you atracted to that kind? I have 4 brothers and none of them married that kind of women.

Answer 11

this is common in all people, not just women.  everyone has moods and tend to get irritated with the one we love.  we seem to give more sh** to the one we love because we think they'll put up with us because they love us.  notice she doesn't treat her friends that way (and neither do you).  friends don't put up with mood swings.  but bf's and husbands do (most of the time).

or maybe it's just you.  maybe she's undecided about you and can't decide what to do.

there i go being a wishy-washy female again.  is there anything such as a caring, compassionate, consistent man?

Answer 12

are you really black mr bightside?

Answer 13

Are all women like this : YES, Is there such thing as a woman with a reliable, consistent mood? NO. I really don't mind admitting that I am wishy washy and most women are this way, but only a few will admit it. I don't like being this way but I am. some days are worse than others, maybe its the hormones or something...Please continue to love her, she can't help it either...

Answer 14

Women do get somewhat moody and especially during their menses.  During that time some girls don't get out of their normal mood but some are really cranky.  It's just part of being a woman.  Sorry.