I don't mean to suggest that men aren't traditional. But the wedding day is often designed and planned by the woman, hence my question...
A friend of mine and her boyfriend are getting engaged. They've apparently already discussed it, including how many people to invite. So they both know they're getting married.
Yet she says "He is still going to have to ASK me".... I said "If someone has to ask, why don't you ask him?" and she looked at me like I just scooped p**p with her handbag.
"No! We have to do it properly!" was her answer.
She's planning on the white dress, too, despite the fact that I doubt she's virginal... The diamond ring... the whole shebang.
I've never had any interest in weddings, despite being quite 'girly', and I can't relate to this. What makes me most curious is WHY many women are so attached to the old gender roles when it comes to proposals and weddings...
Thoughts?
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