TO ALL THOSE THAT ARE ADOPTION HATERS (and you know who you are)....these days there is something called OPEN ADOPTION. This means that the child has an opportunity to be adopted while maintaining contact with his or hers birthparents. So the sealed records and not being able to know why your parents gave you up will eventually be a thing of the past. Most adoptive families (like myself) opt for the open adoption.....who wouldn't want more love in their adopted childs life. Then on the other hand...there are SO MANY birthmoms that may want nothing to do with their children, perhaps the birthmom is a homeless drug addict who is having her 6th child, perhaps she is in jail and having her 1st child, MAYBE she is 13 years old and was raped by her Uncle, and lastly, maybe the condom broke!!!! Whatever her circumstances, adoption may be what SHE WANTS for her child WITH OR WITHOUT any future contact with her child(ren).
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