Why bother me so much that some people stare at me?

Question

I can stand that, my father, my brother, my boss, old women, stare at me, some times I have to tell my fathar "stop watching me so much, and he say "you are going crasy".

but, when a beautifull woman do that, it doesn´t bother me.

Some times I used sun glasses, and so it doesn´t bother me too much.

What is happening to me?

Answer 1

I think that you might have a problem looking at people in the eye. I have a similar problem.

I have anxiety so I have an issue walking where there are crowds of people. I don't like walking into a room where there are a lot of people because I feel like they are all going to stare at me.

I don't think they are staring because I'm pretty or that I'm doing something weird - in fact, in reality they are probably NOT staring. It is my fear of them staring that makes me anxious.  I wear sunglasses a lot and I am much, much less anxious when I have them on.

Think about it - you are obviously turning to look at all of these people and unless you sit in a staring contest with them, you probably smile, say something or just turn away - and they do too.  They probably weren't staring.  

I was going to say that perhaps you have such a unique look that people just gravitate - but your father, brother and boss? Are you sure they are staring? What makes you think they've been staring?

Become more aware of your surroundings and you might find that in fact you created this yourself. It doesn't mean you're crazy - it means you might be shy or anxious.  There's nothing wrong with that.  

Answer 2

staring is so rude

i cant stand it when ppl stare!!!

My younger brother is a goth and as much as i dont really like the way he dresses, its who he is in his life right now and hopefull it will pass but i cant believe the stares people give.

Theyre only CLOTHES for fu-cks sake!!

Chavs are deffinatly the worst culprits for this sort of thing

and the majority of old folk.

Answer 3

May be you are so cute or opposite looks little weird to others.You need to observe yourself first if anything wrong with your looks.Do you look normal or crazy kind of look etc.If it's really bothers then don't wear or style your clothes or hair etc.otherwise nothing you can do as people do like to stare either attractive object or even ugly one.Hope this helps.

Answer 4

you are day dreaming

Answer 5

you are taking yourself very seriously .just relax

Answer 6

nobody likes to be judged wrong, when people stare, its not usually for a good reason....