Why can't I carry a conversation???

Question

I took anti-depressants for 1 year, ADD medication for 2, and I've smoked weed on & off for 5. No big deal IMO. I don't drink. I've been clean from marijuana for a month now, and planning on keeping myself off everything. I don't think I'm depressed, maybe just anti-social. I say this because I always find myself sitting, quiet, while others talk to me..and talk and talk, and tell me stories and all this c**p I don't care to hear. I get irritated a lot because I don't feel the need to say anything and I'm sitting there listening. What the h**l is wrong with me?

Answer 1

Sounds like your a little shy no offense. Try telling somebody a story or looking up a few jokes, to make them laugh it will make them interested in what you have to say.

Answer 2

maybe you need to see a psychologist

Answer 3

Nothing, lol.

U're just really, really, really bored cause nothing seams 2 capture or peak U're interest.

I'm like that 2 & I also always have very little 2 say unless U talk about something that catches or peaks my interest.  Otherwise I do what U do.  I just sit there all spaced out & don't care.  & I don't even do drugs, drink or on any meds, lol.  It's just the way I am, is all.

So good luck with that & chill.

Answer 4

You can when you are ready. Circulate around a bit more. Keep off the funny stuff. It is called dope for a very good reason. What made you depressed? Tell yourself, not me. Just aim to improve on that a bit each day and you will be laughing along with mates in no time.

But, whatever you do, do not turn this into a new form of anxiety.

Answer 5

two words: you're bored.

Stay off the weed, too... that stuff DOES make you antisocial, not to mention smoking weed makes you stupid [literally] Get out of the house more -- play sports -- something to get the blood pumping... doesn't even have to BE sports. Stop listening to conversations that bore you, and DO something you like. The best way to relieve ANY kind of depression is through exercise. THAT, and not being bored.

Answer 6

might want to google "asberger syndrome" it often gets diagnosed as ADD

Answer 7

Maybe, and i hate to say it, youre just not that interesting.  People who arent interesting cant always carry a conversation.  It sucks, i used to be like that.  Good thing is, you can change.  Just start doing things that you like, eventually people will warm up and so will you.  Thats how i got to climbing.

Hope i helped man.

good luck with satying clean.