Why can't I ever seem to find a girl?

Question

Here's a big sum up of a long story. Everytime I like a girl, I talk to them, get to know them, hang out with them... but then once I ask them on a date things just don't end up right?

The last 2 girls I liked have ended up becoming VERY close friends of mine. They have both told me that I didn't do anything wrong and that I'm the perfect guy, they just didn't get that feeling of liking me more than a friend. They wonder why I can't find a girl (and they tell me I don't need one)

I know I don't need one.. but its nice to have that special someone to talk to and spend time with and have as more than a best friend. Also I haven't kissed a girl in about a year (which really sucks when I see my friends with girls)

So should I keep trying or just give up and concentrate on school and baseball?

Answer 1

the girls can wait , do your thing in school, and from the time you stop looking for miss right she will be waiting for you .don't rush time will take care of ll that[ your friends are on there on time].

Answer 2

Well I can just say from experience that all the answers I'm seeing aren't totally true. Yes, you can live without a girlfriend, but it isn't necessary to have one. But really I will tell you that any girl that passes you up is just simply not the right one. Everything happens for a reason, so every girl that passes you up is just another bump in the road to get you to the right one. Plus, Think of the fact that you're in the town of where ever you live which means that's only a fraction of the world of girls you can find. It's not a matter of focusing on something else, it is very nice to have a partner in crime. :) Just give it time and let life swing the way it goes and let every event come to you. You never know when that new girl in school could start talking to you and she starts to like you and you like her. It just takes time to find that girl that really fits. You'll find a girl, just give it time.

Answer 3

What you seem to be experiencing is called the "friends symdrome" basically when you meet a new girl avoid doing things that would make a girl rather be a friend then a boyfriend. For example if you see a girl and a girl talks about his ex avoid getting to symithetic. The symethetic talk will make her feal like that yes your a great guy but you so nice that she would be afraid of hating you for possibly breaking up with you in a relationship. Avoid things like being overly sympethic and be more hot. I would also mention right from the start that you are looking for a girl friend.  

Answer 4

dude you are not alone... i have the same problem with guys. i think what it is maybe is something like saving the best for last if that makes any sense. if those two girls said that about you then maybe its just not your time yet. maybe you should just do what you do and let it come to you, dont push it cuz you could end up hurt.

Answer 5

you are trapped with the kind of personality that attracts friends and not lovers. its not uncommon today as more and more women seek safe relationships with guys. Women (and most married people) will tell you to just wait, it will happen. If you've only been without a significant other for a year, you can wait. I'm approaching 12 years. I haven't given up hope but I've realized that it's not going to happen tomorrow. That's not to say that it won't but you need to learn to relax about it (it will take about 8 to 9 years of dining alone to get use to it).

To those who give you that false pity about "God will provide" and all that stuff, rubbish. You will have to make an effort of your own. And yes, you do need someone if just to make dinner a lot more enjoyable. continue trying and don't give up hope. It will be hard, especially when women these days are largely unapproachable.

I once had someone tell me the easiest way to go out with someone is to ask them out when you are already going out with them. Makes about beans for sense. don't give up but be sure you have a layer on retainer  

Answer 6

concentrate on skool and basketball one will come around soon. u seem young you don't need one. most girls=drama. u don't need that

Answer 7

Because Brad you (seem) like a NICE guy.  HS girls don't go for that but don't worry... there is life after HS and you will be greatly rewarded.  Stay true to yourself; keep looking and you will find a girl that appreciates a nice guy.  Concentrate on sports and school and don't fret it too much.  Someone might be admiring you from afar right now and you just do not know it yet.  Good luck.

Answer 8

Never give up on love<3

I know exactly how you feel right now

I'm in the same spot exept im jst not finding anyone worth loving

i know u feel really down and lonely right now but dnt give in im sure when the time is right tht person will jst appear and then you jst b like OMG i think i lke this person-and tht girl will b sayin the same thing bout you =)

i hope i made your day a lil better cse u made mine with this ?