Why can't I fight?

Question

Ok.. I have something thats really bothering me.. I don't know why but I'm afraid of fighting people. It's not like I start problems cuz I never really fought before. (only when my sister was fighting this girl.) But I actually want to fight. I'm a really good fighter my bro teaches me boxing and he's not one of those wack trainers. I mean I'm really strong. But even with my strength I dont have the strength to fight. And I really want to have a real fight! I don't mean sparring with my sis. But messing some girl or guy up. How do I over come this fear. Everyone in my class thinks I'm this tough girl that culd f*** anyone up, and isn't scared of anyone. But I'm not.. How do I over come my fear of fighting?

Answer 1

why do you want to fight?

if you had a reason it would be much easier.

Going around beating people in the street you'll likely run into someone stronger and faster then you and they would really mess you up.

Maybe you should train and fight a real bout

Answer 2

Why would you want to inflict pain on another person? What is wrong with you? Thats what you need to determine.

Answer 3

I'm 28 years old and consider myself a pretty tough person but have never been in a street fight.  I have been boxing for about a year now and all you can do if just train till something does happen.  The more you train the more your confidence will go up.

Answer 4

if you haven't been in a fight, you dont know yet if it is something you can do. your always nervous before you do something ur first time.

Answer 5

this isn't uncommon and there is nothing wrong with you. you simply need to train more and start sparing and this will go away. probably after the first time you get hit in the head you will stop worrying and want to hit back

Answer 6

how much can you know about yourself if you've never been in a fight?i dont know,  i dont wanna die without any scars ;)

Answer 7

You shuld not try to fight but if u reall wan then just boost ur energy up. Meditate and try to just fight in ring,....

Answer 8

you can't learn to be a great fighter like say street fighting but you can learn to be a good controlled fighter, go rent some self teaching martial arts dvd's