Why can't I forget about a crush?

Question

She has a fiancee

I want to forget about her. We used to flirt a lot before I found she had a fiancee that she likes.....I guess she was just using me for attention. But I stopped once I found out.

How can I forget about her???? I ignore her at school now, but I still think about her.

I can't stop obsessing. Its hard for me in general to meet girls and she was so forward

Answer 1

Hun, it always happens. You are still in love. You have to move on though, if she has a fiancee, then you don't want him to find out you are still in love with her.

Answer 2

you used to be honest to her but she is not so you are a better persen

she dont deserve you and time well make you forget

Answer 3

Keep reminding yourself that she has a finance and there is nothing that you can do.

Answer 4

Chances are that someone who acts like they have no commitment to the person they are with would do it to anyone else. If, hypothetically, you guys got close, what makes you think she wouldn't do that to you with some other guy? Personally, I think that respect between two people is the most promising basis of any relationship. Things may seem awesome when you think about it, and what you feel for her, but is that realsitically on the same ground as what she presents herself to be? You can do better, just know it yourself.  

Answer 5

Its a pity... you could get over her if you had closure...

Answer 6

You need to get your mind off her. Best thing would be to find someone else that you like whom you can focus your attention on. Lacking that, I would recommend focusing on hobbys, sports, going out with your friends, etc.

Best of luck.

Answer 7

dude, u have to find someone else...

throw away anything that reminds you of her and start doing things for yourself more... it helps... like go to the gym or hang out with other peeps...

u have to move on... dwelling on the past is never good... been there done that and i know it hurts like h**l

be strong!!

good luck!