Why can't I get this guy out of my head?

Question

I met this guy two years ago in a bar and we talked a bit and I gave him my number. He called me as soon I got home and asked me if we could hang out. I said it no cause it was to late and he called me the next day and I went around to his house and we had s*x. He didn't call me for weeks and when I saw him he hardly spoke to me. A few weeks later he started calling and texting me asking what I was doing. I told him I was in a relationship and couldn't see him. About six weeks ago I saw him again for the first time in two years and he was really nice to me and he asked for my number. We have been texting each other flirtatious messages for six weeks. Some of the time I have sent him messages and he hasn't responded. Anyway on Friday night we met up at his house he was all over me from the minute I got there and I was trying to drink wine to calm my nerves (and to get passed the fact I just didn't find him as attractive as before) and he was pushing me into his room. We had s*x and like ten minutes later he was like okay see ya' later. I was there for like an hour in total max. I am not that physically attracted to him but he has this charm or something and he just stands there and I could say so much to him and OMG I do. I texted him to say I had a good time and he didn't respond. Clearly he is a really horrible guy but I can't seem to stop thinking about him! I asked him if he wanted to see me again on a casual basis and he didn't respond. He sort of insinuates that I am tart (probably cause I did do it with him pretty quickly) but I never, ever, go home with random men. What should I do? Do you think he will call me again?

Answer 1

I think you already know the answer to this. It doesn't matter if he calls you again, he is not for real. Make sure you only want s*x from him, before you start worrying about whether he will call. If you want a relationship, then I'd suggest you forget this guy and move on. Be honest to yourself first about what you REALLY want.