Why can't I have an o****m ?

Question

Okay, so I already asked a similar question, but i'm not getting the type of answer that I'm looking for, so I'll try something different.

I am only 15 and a virgin. Should I always have an o****m when getting fingered or masturbating ? Does age affect having o****m at all ? Also, say i was someone who always had an o****m while getting fingered, what if i never one time? How would I know for my partner to stop ?

Answer 1

im 13--a virgin--and can have an o****m...so i dont think it has to do with age...well im also a guy

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Answer 2

it's perfectly normal for you not to o****m when being fingered by a partner, if the way that they're touching you isn't what makes you o****m, if that makes sense. You should try giving them subtle signs to touch you in a certain way/place, which feels good for you and then hopefully you will o****m.

And with regards to knowing when your partner should stop, whenever you feel like you want them to, even if you've not had an o****m.  

Answer 3

a lot of females can only get an o****m from masterbating  

Answer 4

You can have an o****m, you just haven't found out what works for you yet. It's about experimenting and finding out what really turns you on. You are very young and quite inexperienced, so of course you are only starting to discover what's good for you. Don't worry. It will come with time.  

Answer 5

Some women experience an o****m easier by stimulation of the clitoris as opposed to their G spot inside.  Have you tried using the bathtub faucet?  Let the water run on your clitoris...make sure the stream is strong enough for you to feel something.  You'll know when to stop!  You or your boyfriend could also use fingers to stimulate the clitoris.  If you don't have access to lubrication, spit will work to make the area easier to rub.  Good luck!!!!