Why can't I have baby number 2?

Question

I'm having trouble conceiving. I already have one child so I know I can. I got PG with him right away. I was with a fiance n we actually were trying but i didn't get pregnant. We broke up, he got married n is now having a baby...another boyfriend I was with- we weren't trying- but were having unprotected s*x, around the right time and I didnt get pregnant...and recently I was with my bf who happens to be my first love n we only had a pregnancy scare- i'm still not sure if I am or not...but even tho its not planned,and at the mere "if" of me bein prego- he took off! so we're no longer together...i still wouldn't mind having my second baby....but why does it seem to be difficult?

Answer 1

My first was conceived within first month of TTC (I was 28 then), he will be 6 in Dec08. I have been trying for no.2 since Dec 07 & still now news. Currently, AF is 3 days late & I will be testing tomorrow. I hope this is the month for me.

Some people mentioned about secondary infertility & I will seek medical advice if I am not pregnant by Dec 08. I too never used medical BC, just condom as a protection during the yrs we are not TTC.

Are you tracking your ovulation period? Mostly 12 -14 days after your AF & you will have CM (white, thick & stretchy). You can BD every other day when you ovulate.

Answer 2

Perhaps changes in your body over time.  When you are actively trying make an appointment with your dr. as you may have changes in your hormone levels after your first child that should be correct before you can conceive your second.  Good Luck