Why can't I keep my p***s hard during masturbation and s*x?

Question

It gets hard when I mess with my girlfriend, but I lose it after a while. The other night I was fine, twice in one night, but most of the time I have trouble keeping an erection even when she goes down.

Answer 1

You might have ED, Erectile Dysfunction. DO NOT USE VIAGRA OR LEVITRA it is known to cause heart problems in men, sadly it was a drug meant to HELP your heart, but oh well -_- anyways consult a physician instead, don't try anything stupid, none of those pills really work

Answer 2

It is most probably because your stressed or nervous that this is happening so try not to worry to much about it, have a talk with your girlfriend about your concerns and im sure she well reassure you and make you feel better. Also sometimes this problem (erectile dysfunction) can sometimes just happen to men and is often just a phase that passes with time.

In the mean time there are several things you can do which may help:

- Herbal viagra (this is safe and natural alternative to regular viagra it is available from health food stores and chinese medicine shops)

- C*ck ring - this a ring which is placed around the base of you erect p***s, it applies a very slight pressure and helps blood stay in your p***s and therefore stops you from losing your erection. A lot of men find wearing them enjoyable and there are even viabrating versions. They are available from adult stores, although im sure you could make something simialar at home if you dont want to go shopping for one.

- Indulge in your fantasies, getting your girlfriend to do something you really enjoy (dressing up/role play) or watching p**n before having s*x, will get you more excited and therefore you are more likely to stay hard.

- Don't have s*x when you are drunk, tired or stressed - all these things can effect erections.

If you are very worried about this or it continues for a long time, go and see your doctor. Dont be embarrassed as he will have seen this problem hundreds of times before.

Good luck - i really hope things get better for you soon x x

Answer 3

this is simply a case of erectile dysfunction...you should visit http://totallywhole.blogspot.com for its cause and solution. cheers

Answer 4

maybe you need to take a break, and also try eating healthy food, a lot of fish, that will help to keep it hard as rock.

Answer 5

Your a d**n Dummy!

Answer 6

A lot of the times men can't keep an erection is because they are under lots of stress.  

Answer 7

u need 2 relax the thing is if u let it play on your mind this will make u worse play some soft music light some candles and take it slowly

Answer 8

We as guys are SO affected by the craziest things or combinations of things that can plague our ability to perform................medications, general health, depression, anxiety...........they all work against us.  And even the time of day affects your ability.

The p***s is a vascular organ, so being heart health means being able to pop wood whenever you want.  And keep it.  And with society's eating habits, few people fall into this category.  It's the best place to put your time and work into.  So very much in our bodies depend on great blood flow.

Time of day matters a lot, too.  Testosterone levels rise and fall during the day.  I used to find that I couldn't perform well around 4 PM, but if I waited an hour or two, things were good.  And 11 PM is always woody time for me.  Of course, there's the unavoidable morning wood, mainly because our testosterone levels are highest when we wake up.

You don't say how old you are.  And age is another huge factor.  Blood vessels become less elastic as we age.  Our skin becomes less sensitive due to exposure to sun, wind, and life.  

I wouldn't worry about it.  I'm sorry to report that there will be times when you can't perform.  That's normal.  Now, if you can't perform  five times in a row, then perhaps there's a problem.  See your doctor.

Answer 9

maybe try viagra? or maybe u need a little bit more stimulation, in this case try and discover wat gets u really excited, maybe watch p**n while ur fooling around, or get her to talk dirty to u..

another option would be not to amsterbate often so that wen it cums to being with ur girlfriend u will b VERY VERY excited

Answer 10

Maybe you are trying the wrong stimulus. Anything else ever make you horny?

Answer 11

Erectile dysfunction (ED). Viagra / levitra is the answer.

Answer 12

lack of sensitivity due to circumcision maybe?

Answer 13

There are a number of possible causes, lack of sensitivity due to nerve damage from circumcision, as  Intactivist says, stress and anxiety can also contribute.

Ignore the silly, puerile answers.   This is a serious problem

Children can be very cruel.

Answer 14

i think you are low on testosterone