Why can't I o****m during s*x anymore?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We are very close and have an awesome relationship, even though it's long distance (2.5 hours driving). We have worked with our situation well and have made it work.

Our s*x life was always so amazing. We were always ready to pounce each other as soon as we saw each other. I was able to o****m during intercourse from the very beginning and I never had a problem. We usually see each other every weekend. The first time we have s*x after it's been a week is sometimes hard for me to reach o****m but I used to be able to get there eventually.

Lately (the past month or so), the first time after a week or two it's been impossible for me to reach o****m. Now it is causing some strain in the relationship because he feels he can't satisfy me. We are also having a lot less s*x when we are together now.

I can't figure out what my problem is, I can o****m fine on my own.

I'm not sure if now I'm thinking about it too much and worrying about it happening again and that's causing the problem.

Can someone please help me! Any suggestions are welcome :)

Answer 1

Don't do it too much on your own...that can have an effect. Also, yes, I bet that you are thinking too much about it. Try and relax.  

Answer 2

Let him do all the work ; ]  1 time if ya know what i mean

Answer 3

The first thing you need to do is figure out why your s*x drive is low and try to help get it back.  I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed.  I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak.  Probably because of my s*x drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working.  I thought I was screwed.  I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her s*x drive.  It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it.  Theres no side effects and the s*x drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting.  The stuff is called Hersolution pills.  At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it.  I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating s*x drive and my o****m strength in increased so much.  

Well good luck and I hope this helps.