Why can't I stop thinking about her 24/7?

Question

I like this girl. She made it clear to me that we are just friends. I told her that I liked her and agreed to being friends first and who knows what later. Even though we are "friends", we still have been very passionate at times. We have slept together, showered together and much more. It was love at first site for me but not for her. Now after all we have been through in the past month, I like her even more than before. I figured she had began to like me for more than just a friend so I asked her for a commitment. It was more like begging for a commitment and she still refused and only wanted to be friends. The past few days have been horrible. I have been acting like a big baby telling her how much i love her and even though she says it doesn't, I think my emotions have scared her away somewhat. I'm soooooo sad right now. I can't stop thinking about her and it has clouded my concentration at work and is affecting my sleep.

Answer 1

you cant stop thinking about her because you love her so much

Answer 2

It seems she is only doing time pass.

Answer 3

Looks like you got yourself a f*ck buddy there pal.  Enjoy it while it lasts.  If she doesn't want a relationship, take your frustrations out on her in the bedroom.  Really lay the smack down on her a$$!!!

Answer 4

ask her why she showered with you, even though she doesnt like you.  

Answer 5

You fell for her too fast.It's obvious that she just wanted what she already got from you.

It's going to take a while to heal since your emotions are involved.

Answer 6

I think she's scared to show her feelings for you, it's normal and will pass in time.  

Answer 7

now this is one thing i don't like....BEGGERS!!!! guys who beg is so unatractive... i would say to stop begging and kind of be a little mean to her.....maybe that'll get to her and start trying to hang out with you more maybe develope feeling.... but please stop the begging