Why can't I trust anyone?

Question

I've been having problems a lot lately and if I could trust them. I thought my ex was a good guy until he almost took my virginity when I didn't want to. Some people I consider friends turn their backs on me when they get what they want out of me and I'm not aware of it. They use me for school work, money, and things like that. Does that make me stupid? I mean just tonight, my current boyfriend told me that this girl he had a thing with told him she still liked him and she wanted to see what he could do in the bedroom. Now, She lied to me saying she didn't have feelings for him which was a lie. Also, she knew about my boyfriend and I being together which really disgusts me. We were kinda close in school. People I think I can trust to be good to me aren't. I would never do anything to hurt anyone. Why is this happening to me? I'm confused on why people are like this to me. I just feel like I'm going crazy.

Answer 1

You can't trust people because they can't trust themself.

If they knew what they wanted, and who they really were, they would be able to portray it in their actions.

Answer 2

What you have got to learn is that people aren't like this to you in particular...PEOPLE are like this in general...To every one. It doesn't matter who you are, theres always going to be someone who lies and deceives you...There is really nothing you can do about that but try and be the best person you can be by not acting like them.

Good luck and I hope things go alright.

Answer 3

the olny person that you  can trust is yourself. and i have learned this the hard way. and there are people who care about you and than there are people who dont care and just wanna hurt you so be very careful with who you tell what to. if you wanna talk to me one on one my email is [e-mail]..... i am a great peson to talk ot and i dont judge if you have a myspace my url is myspace.com/jennie315331

Answer 4

you cant trust people because the people you thought you could trust you couldn't so you feel like everyone is out to get you and you can trust no one and your not going crazy everyone goes thought the stage were they think everyone hates them and you only have yourself...im only 13 and i have been thought it...i have 4 best friends and other friends now im better open yourself and let people in. if you need to talk email me.

Answer 5

You can trust me. Dont worry i dont feel like reading your big long question but there are people out there you can trust. There was at one time I thought "who can i trust" but then I realized you have to know who to trust.

Not everyone you can but believe it or not there are some out there you can truly trust.