Why can't a person meet you?

Question

Is it because they are ashamed of something? I am waiting to meet my natural mother but she sent my aunt to be with me until she can get it together she said. What does she mean about getting herself together?

Answer 1

when she is mentally ok.   Some use that word for a cop out.  She is probably ashamed  & embarrassed for giving you up so she needs more time.  

Answer 2

This should be an understandable situation,. I salute your courage but for someone who knows she is blameful for any reasons that she feels guilty of , ashamed of , are  afraid of confrontation. She is definitely not ready yet, this is her own look-out now.  She needs time to prepare herself, right now she is not stable yet, yes emotionally, psychologically and mentally. Give her sometime, anyway the truth is just in front of both of you now...Be patient!