Why can't i <span title="feel?........................">feel?.......................</span>

Question

s*x!?!?!?!? it's nothing. why is this? i'm not normal :( i never feel aroused or turned on :| and when having s*x it just feels like nothing. what can i do for this to change?

Answer 1

birth control can do this to some women. diy explore. see if you can find something that you like. maybe your partner just doesn&#039;t know how to please you. if your not being pleased i could see why you would never be turned on. make it a point to conciously think about s*x during the day at least a few times that helps me.  

Answer 2

you didnt mention your age it could just be your not ready for s*x yet if your young.

are you on medications? some can reduce sexual enjoyment

many mental dissorders also can do like wise

there are of course also a few medical disorders that also can reduce sexual enjoyment

perhapes you simply have not yet met the right person

talk to ob/gyn, dr, or therapist

explore your sexuality more, experiment

good luck

Answer 3

Perhaps you need to change your bloke, that may work..

Answer 4

Are you on birth control? a lot of times certain people have these reactions to birth control... weird i know. if so, talk to your doctor, he/she can help you work this out.

If not, I&#039;m not sure what it could be. Have you tried self-exploration? That way you can figure out what you like. Or if you have a partner, talk to them, try to figure out what you like and what feels good to you. You could make a day of it, and make it fun!

Are you happy having s*x? are you emotionally ready to have s*x with the person you are with? it could just be your body telling you that maybe you are not.

Try lubricants, they have warming, tingling, ha... any feeling you would like to have down there.

Talk to your OB/GYN regardless. They will be glad to help and they will know much more about the problem than most people on here do.

Good luck and happy sexing :)

Answer 5

Try getting a guy that will explore this problem with you,or tell the guy your with to spend more time trying to turn you on,relax a bit more and give your juices a chance to flow.

Answer 6

Hey.  I know that feeling (and I&#039;m a guy!). It&#039;s hard to feel it if you don&#039;t have a connection with your guy.  And maybe he doesn&#039;t know all your best foreplay spots to stimulate.  I think you should explore a bit more.

Answer 7

What age are you

Answer 8

Well its so overrated.. you hear as a young kid how its so GREAT but I think its very overrated

and I&#039;d say your as normal as anyone else is.

Answer 9

Are you on the Pill or anything like that? That can have an affect on the old labido!!

If not, how about a good nuaghty book to get you going?!

Answer 10

why do the words &#039;like a bucket&#039; spring to mind?

Answer 11

Wow that is a hard one. I don&#039;t know how to answer it. Sorry.

Answer 12

Your best bet is self exploration to find out what gets you going! :-)