Why can't i take the first step?

Question

i don't know why, but im the kind of person who is afraid to take chances when it comes to relationships.

for instance, last year i had an "interest" in this boy for a WHOLE year, and never even spoke to him.

i have been teased all my life, called ugly and all sorts on names. which has messed up with my self esteem.

i mean, i think im pretty, but no one else seems to think.

i just want people to see the me i see in the mirror.

right now i have an "interest" in this boy at my new skool

he is in two of my classes, but IM STILL AFRAID TO TALK TO HIM.

everytime a boy finds out i like him, they never like me. so i never really tried to take chances on a boy because i don't want to get hurt

how do i overcome this fear??!!!

Answer 1

omg ive sooooooo been there

i liked a guy for the whole year last year and never talked to him and i was called names as well

ignor the people who call u names and say ur ugly there is no such thing as an ugly person

if u like a guy now then just go up to him and say hi and start talkin to him u wont regret it

take a chance and tell him that u like him straight up i mean u can eaither go the rest of the year hidin it and ull never know if it coulda worked out or u can tell him and who knows maybe he'll start to feel the same way twards u

so the only way to over come any fear is to face it and realize that wat u wer stressin bout maybe wasent that big ofa dealwe all get hurt trust me but ull end up gettin hurt even more if u dont take a chance with this guy

good luck :) <33

Answer 2

Well, i started talking to one of my friends about this super cute boy. And the next night i got a text from the guy because my friend told him i thought he was hot. haha. just don't rush into a relationship cause there not all that fun when your young.  

Answer 3

Just take a deep breath and talk to him. Don't over do it, just be friendly. It doesn't matter what the other boys think, they're obviously d*ckheads (excuse my french). If the boy isn't at all nice to him, just move on, obviosly he's a waste of time. Don't dwell on boys if youre never gona make a move.

Hope this helps :)

Answer 4

dont worry about what those stupid people say...

dont ask the guy out just yet... just start talking to him, saying hey whatssup and stuff like that..

Good Luck♥