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Why can't some men take it that a woman can be smarter, wealthier and more in control than him?

by Guest63327  |  earlier

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My maternal great-grandmother told me to never to depend on a man because Black women are the mules of the world. I live by her advice always. Some insecure, puny, weak, crybaby men just can't take if a woman is doing so much better than them in life. For example one of my exes was such a needy baby. Jeez, he was so upset because I'm going to college and I'm about to have 2 jobs one for school and one just for the h**l of it. He would be like, "I don't want you to go to school, because than you're gonna find someone better than me and leave me.Than you're gonna make more money than me. " I told him "It's not my fault you didn't care about school enough.Grow some balls and stuck it up." Than he was like "Well you know, most men want homebodies. They want a woman to stay at home, cook, clean, and have babies." First of, I can cook and clean for my own self. Secondly, I'm not fixing to pop out any kids. I'm going to school for a degree in Fashion Design/Merchandising and I might be a buyer or fashion editor and that requires a lot of traveling. So I might not have kids because I wouldn't want to give up my career for that and I'm not patient enough to deal and plus I don't think I'll be an awesome mother. I like to party and party hard.This isn't the first time i heard this from a man. Why do some men expect for women to stroke their egos? I would rather be pummeled to death than to tell a man everyday how great he is and how he's my everything when he can barely provide for me. Even my dad has said ignorant stuff about me being too independent, he says that it will be harder for me to find a husband later on if I make too much money.

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  1. I don't really deal with that kind of behavior.  I just screen them with my laser brain and get them out of my life.  I've had enough heartache brought on by those scum-my men.  I just move on... :D


  2. i dont really give a d**n about it

    im a guy

  3. All you've said is your idea of who you are. Go for what you know! Later in life you'll learn that your soul mate will be someone you will love because of who he is and who you are at that time.

    A plan for your life is something everyone should consider. But, human nature will take it's course. Life is gonna take many compromises and unexpected  changes ,some good,some bad, that really you won't know it until it's there.

    GO on into life,seek your desires,deny yourself nothing you feel you deserve! Life is gonna be what you make it, not what you always wanted.

      You know yourself better than anyone on this site,So you,  and only can,say who,what,why in your thoughts. It's plain to see that you love' you!'!  Learn to love your life !!   I said all this to say ,"IT'S YOUR THANG,  DO WHAT YOU WANNA DO!!!

  4. A lot of men feel inferior to us when they see that we can ACTUALLY do things on their own

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    My bf supports me in everything I do...he wouldn't care if I made more money....i doubt he would and i wouldn't throw it in his face....that's just wrong....he wants to take care of me and us, but he knows i dont want him for his money at all...he just wants to be the guy and take care of me, but that doesn't mean he doesn't want me to succeed because he does....we both want the finer things in life and we want to share them with each other...im happy that my bf actually has a plan for life....even happier that there's an us in that plan

    EDIT: lol i never said you threw it in his face...im just saying that I PERSONALLY would not do that....

  5. lol I could care less really.

    My question to you is, why would you come on here and rant in such a way about women being more powerful than men? Feeling insecure? Have to prove a point? lol.

  6. You can be my sugar momma, I don't care.  And you don't want me to cook or clean for you on top of that?  Great, you are my dream woman!

    Basically to answer your question, some men are really dumb.  (Who the h**l would not want to be involved with someone who has money?  You must know some rich azz men, as a broke man I can't understand that philosophy.)

  7. WOW to d**n long i really dont care to read it

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