My maternal great-grandmother told me to never to depend on a man because Black women are the mules of the world. I live by her advice always. Some insecure, puny, weak, crybaby men just can't take if a woman is doing so much better than them in life. For example one of my exes was such a needy baby. Jeez, he was so upset because I'm going to college and I'm about to have 2 jobs one for school and one just for the h**l of it. He would be like, "I don't want you to go to school, because than you're gonna find someone better than me and leave me.Than you're gonna make more money than me. " I told him "It's not my fault you didn't care about school enough.Grow some balls and stuck it up." Than he was like "Well you know, most men want homebodies. They want a woman to stay at home, cook, clean, and have babies." First of, I can cook and clean for my own self. Secondly, I'm not fixing to pop out any kids. I'm going to school for a degree in Fashion Design/Merchandising and I might be a buyer or fashion editor and that requires a lot of traveling. So I might not have kids because I wouldn't want to give up my career for that and I'm not patient enough to deal and plus I don't think I'll be an awesome mother. I like to party and party hard.This isn't the first time i heard this from a man. Why do some men expect for women to stroke their egos? I would rather be pummeled to death than to tell a man everyday how great he is and how he's my everything when he can barely provide for me. Even my dad has said ignorant stuff about me being too independent, he says that it will be harder for me to find a husband later on if I make too much money.
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