Why can't women throw away the inhibitions and be REAL? What are they so terrified of?

Question

I was on the Frankfurt tram today and this band of "musicians" got on and played a ragged Tex-Mex rendition to liven things up and of course went down the aisle with the cup afterwards.

The German women sat stoically, eyes straight ahead unblinking like robotic ice queens...typical western behavior! But when the dudes passed them safely, they were grinning like possums, no doubt having sat through the music flexing their buns in near-orgasmic delight.

My question is, why don't women LOOSEN UP and THROW AWAY THOSE INHIBITIONS and show who you really are and what you are really about instead of PRETENDING? And pretending to be an ICE QUEEN at that? How pathetic!

Is it truly any wonder so many women are never happy? Look at them. It is obvious. They are sad, willing to settle for less, and preoccupied with the superficial.

Instead of whining about me telling the TRUTH, take a look at yourselves, PUPPEN, and ask yourself where you are going and do you know how to get there?

Answer 1

You are lumping all German women together.  Then you branch off to ALL women.  I've seen a lot of guys whose faces would crack if they ever smiled at either the funny or the ridiculous.  I was in a situation a couple of days ago, kidding around with a hunk - and it was the MEN who were giving me the looks from h**l.  The women were all laughing, as well as the guy I was joking around with [and he was a complete stranger - I just thought he was yummy].  So I live alone, am very happy, and think that life's a blast.  I bet you don't - you sound miserable.

Answer 2

afraid of getting hurt, I think. Too many times, I've seen people(myself included) trying to be real, only to end up hurt after showing their real emotions, it's like if you show how you really feel, you are called"Emo" and made fun of, but if you try to hide your feelings you get hurt inside because you feel you are being forced to keep how you feel inside, and you are afraid no one really cares how you feel in the first place.

Answer 3

We would love to throw away our inhibitions unfortunately for centuries we have been judged and ridiculed by other women to a point where we no longer feel like we can be "Real" and men have put some very unrealistic expectations on us by supporting magazines like playboy or Victoria's secret. they Say they want a real woman but instead what they show with their actions is they want a barbie doll cut out to hold as a trophy on their arms. getting real means being vulnerable and exposing ourselves to criticism so most will just sit staring straight ahead with a force field in front of us while in our heads we are dancing in a fountain with the water running wildly through our hair.

Answer 4

That is a very good observation.

Answer 5

I've seen the same reaction in many other countries, not just Deutschland. You are really pasting on the stereotypes. I have met many German who would also react differently.

Answer 6

Partly, women are afraid of being judged harshly by anyone who observes them straying even the least little bit from conventionally proper behavior.  This trend is (or historically has been) especially strong in German culture, though it is prevalent throughout White cultures.

(Oddly enough, White cultures do well overall when women have precisely this habit of being judgmental and being afraid of criticism.)

Germany in particular is a country that was once White and proud of it.  Then they were conquered and made subject to policies that have a distinctly anti-German flavor.  Note that Germany's most recent Miss Universe contestant was not a German woman, but rather a dusky Mulatto or a Middle Easterner.

(The same is true for Belgium's most recent Miss Universe contestant.  There's definitely something rotten in Central Europe.)

As a result, Germans generally, including German women, might be a bit resentful over the fact that power in their country has passed out of their people's hands.  They are forbidden to display that resentment overtly, however.  It would be called "incitement of racial hatred" (which is a crime equivalent to a felony here), and they'd be prosecuted.

So they just stared straight ahead, kept their mouths shut, and endured what, to them, was an insulting brandishment of the greater rights that non-Germans have to strut their cultural norms.

Answer 7

OMG- I wish you lived near me. We would be best friends. I agree!!