Why can people not understand what 'goodbye' means? ?

Question

Major falling out, like super falling out. The two people involved and i havent spoke to each other for about 6 weeks. I made it quite clear that i didnt want to speak to either of them again (i dont need friends who stab me in the back), so out of the blue i get a text message saying 'we need to talk'. To which i thought 'uhhh no we dont'. I said my goodbyes. I said i didnt ever want to speak to them again. What is it that people cant understand about the words goodbye? Are they trying to hold onto the hope that i'll talk to them again the guilt factor kicking in? or is it juts human nature to try to make things right?

Answer 1

I agree to the other answerer.  Maybe they realize they need you. My ex-bf also keeps sending me SMS wherein i alrdy told him i ddnt want to keep in touch with him anymore.

Answer 2

they must be missing u and dont wanna loose u.

Answer 3

You cant blame them for trying. If I thought I was going to lose a friend forever, I'd probably try to talk to them too, even if they said their final goodbyes. Its hard losing friends, and frankly i'd feel better about someone trying to hold on after I said goodbye, then someone who just gave up.