Why ? can someone explain !! =(?

Question

hey guys .,

soo im just wondering -

why is it that some guys jut find some girl who might not be the prettiest , skinniest or coolest and just decide to be mean and bully her?

i mean its just ... not right .

theres this guy in my class who disrespects some teachers ,

down right bullies people but down heart he actually is okay.

and people have saidd that he`s leaving ,a nd apparently moving to Vancouver (for u americans , thats in cannaaddaa)

-- lol , only jokes .

=)

but people have been saying he might come back ,

and i don`t want any more of it

im not the prettiest girl in the world , but im not going to have him make me feel like such a loser any more .

help ?

Answer 1

i was bullied bad, and hit too.  school was he ll for me, and i hated it i complained to the principal when i had too and the teachers and they helped some, i tried to ignore the bully but that did not work so i fought back and that did help sometimes the best thing for you to do would be to go talk to your school counselor and your parents about it.

then they fan tell the bully that he best leave you alone or he will get kicked out of school or suffer other consequences.

Answer 2

In school, I was that girl. I think insecure people feel the need to pick on others. Like, I don't think I'm good enough, so I'll make this person feel as bad as I do inside, only in front of everyone. I don't really know why people do this, but that's my opinion.  

In my experience, as hard as it may be sometimes, the best thing to do is IGNORE him. They are usually looking for a reaction, and get some messed up satisfaction from knowing that they got to you. So if you don't GIVE them the satisfaction, eventually they will give up trying to get that reaction from you.

I had a few guys in my math class who used to pick on me, and I would blush like crazy and feel embarassed, but I never said a word back. After a couple weeks, they gave up on me and chose a new target. Hope that works for you, best of luck!