Why cant i ........?

Question

o****m? the only med i take is micronor, a mini pill, but i cant come, even with rabbits, or its weak, whats wrong with me? ta

Answer 1

Alot of woman don't, It's not uncommon. I find I can only reach it through pleasuring myself or my other half using his fingers.

Some woman just don't, Others (as mentioned before) erally need to learn to relax their bodies. The more you think abou it, the less likely it is to happen.

Answer 2

It sounds like you're just not letting yourself go.  You're worrying about it too much so you're getting stressed and can't relax.  If you're not really into what you're doing it's going to take you a long time to o****m or you might just give up!  Lie down on your own maybe play some music and start thinking about things that turn you on, when you start to relax then get your rabbit out (best thing ever!) and concentrate on yourself, on your body and your feelings.  Take as long as you need (don't try rushing) and enjoy!

Answer 3

i know this sounds cheezy, but let yourself fantasize.  let your mind take you away and let your body do its thing...

Answer 4

are you worried about something cos those rampant rabbits are awesome! they never fail!

take some time out in your mind to relax

you're probably just not relaxed its a mental thing.

Answer 5

Oh gosh yes I have the same problem.

Only mine has to do with the fact that I was sexually abused for years. When it was happening, I didnt allow myself to feel any pleasure from it. I had to fight it off, and basically made myself numb to it all.

But now I am with a wonderful and caring person, who loves me very much. s*x with him is absolutely great, but still, whenever he attempts to stimulate me, I will panic and make him stop before I come. I think it reverts back to my instinct from so many years of pain. Its definitely frustrating though.

Anyways, Im trying to get past that. Maybe something like this has happened to you? I dont mean to pry into your past or anything, its just something to think about. Good luck, I promise, you WILL eventually get there, and it feels great:)

Answer 6

its normal t have this problem. many people find themselves in this position. the best thing to do is ask your physician for advice.  

Answer 7

Haha what are rabbits?