Why cant most people conceive this about ”moving on”?

Question

Why romantic love has to last only if it is shared? That seems a selfish thing to me...

If u love someone, u love him for who he is, not for the fact that he loves u back.

So his feelings cannot change mine.

Moving on is a stupid concept - love is a constant!

I get the moving on if u get marriedc to have a family because u dont have hope with your true love, but that doesnt mean it changes your feelings. Its like a widdow remarrying for practical reasons.

But love is not something u just move on from!

Why is this so impossible to conceive to u people out there????

Answer 1

Love is not always constant.

It fades. People fall in and out of love all the time.

What you are describing... when one person loves someone and the other person doesn't reciprocate those feelings is called: Unrequited love.

That is the worse.

Answer 2

Love may indeed be a constant, but it is not an absolute. It sounds as though you are stuck in a situation where your love is unrequited, in which case, I suggest to you that your love is not all encompassing enough...you must also love yourself. And, leaving yourself in a stuck position where you go from limitless options to none at all is not treating yourself lovingly. Food for thought.