Why cant we make a baby???

Question

i am 20 my husband is 23

we have been trying for a year at the end of this month!

i am so frustrated! what kind of woman cant make a baby?

i have s*x at least 3 times a week

i just dont get it.

i just got off my period which started on the 8th and ended the 11th.

my periods are light-medium

but never last longer than 3 or 4 days and i recieve my period ever 35-36 days

any suggestions?

Answer 1

maybe your husband should get tested.  i would start charting and using pre-seed and an instead softcup to keep the seamen in after ejaculation.  also, testing with an clear blue ovulation kit helps as well so that you can make sure you have sperm in you at your peak of fertility.  good luck to both you and your husband.

Answer 2

have you gone to your gynecologist about this problem? maybe its not you, maybe its your husbands sperm! there are a lot of things that could be going on and the only way to find out what the problem is, is to go to your doctors! and if you cant get pregnant naturally then try invitro and if that doesnt work think about adoption! Good luck I hope everything works out and i hope in a year from now you will have your baby!

Answer 3

hi there i totally no where ur coming from i have been trying for nearly 6 years and is the hardest thing to go through i would advise you go to your doctor they will prob send you to the fertility clinic with your partner for some tests i went after trying for a year it takes a long time but i am now on the waiting list for ivf and have a year left to wait other things you could try is stop smokin if you do that is dont drink to much take folic acid everyday and for your partner take zinc and dont have to much caffine i also bought a clearblue fertility monitor from boots it costs about £100 but you use it everyday like a pregnancy test and it tells you when your ovulation is at its best good luck i no its hard hope you dont have to wait as long as me xx

Answer 4

You can chart your cycles to include taking BBT, checking CM, etc.  Also, using OPK's to see when you are ovulating.

Most doctors will consider checking a couple for infertility if you've been trying unsuccessfully for 12 months.  So talk to your doctor about getting checked out in more detail.  That goes for both of you!  Guys don't like to hear that they might be shooting blanks, but it might not be you!

Best of Luck & Baby Dust!!

Answer 5

Timing is the key and you have to know when you are ovulating.  The best thing to do is find out your ovulating days and start having s*x every other day a week before and a week after your ovulation.  You should have s*x in either the missionary position or doggy style and after that lay on your back with a pillow under your hips for 20-30 mins.  You might also try to take preseed, I have heard of women getting pregnant really soon after they start taking it.  Best of luck to you.