Why did I get butterflies?

Question

Ok, guys, this has to do with the cake question. The first girl I ever slept with just called me. I haven't heard from her in at least 2 1/2 years. Altho she is married, as was I at the time, we had an experimental experience several times, lol. When I heard her voice I was really nervous and excited. I told her I was in love with my girlfriend, how happy I am, and how wonderful my gf is. She asked me to meet her for lunch one day, and I said ok. Problem is, she is HOTTTT!!!!, s**y and I have always felt a strong sexual attraction to her, almost a primal urge....

Answer 1

s*x is good, fun, ect but i think over time you developed alot of feelings for her.

if you cant trust yourself around her, then stay away from her.

"theres a fine line between love and lust,like and hate.enemies and best friends."

edit: maybe you have fallen for her memory. those flash backs take you back and i dont think you really ever noticed you really liked her and it wasnt just about s*x for you...at least not  the whole time.

Answer 2

OK, please pardon me for being blunt here Critty, you know I love ya!  This can lead to nothing good (except good s*x).  If you love your gf & want to stay with her and stay faithful to her, don't go to lunch with this girl. (we will call her cake)  If you are having these strong of feelings for her now just from a phone call, do you truly think they will subside if you meet Cake for lunch? Let's be honest, NO.  If you really want to keep the friendship, keep it on a telephone/email basis or introduce her to your gf.  

Also, food for thought, if you really TRULY love your gf, does she still give you those sort of butterflies? Do you really think it's possible to get butterflies for another person when you're with the one you truly love. XOXO!

Answer 3

So after 2.5 years she comes back to see you..whom by the way she had an amazingly "mind blowing" experience, JUST TO HAVE LUNCH?...

*coughs*...yep.

And I quote "how is it wrong to act on desire when were both suffocating from it? When it harms no one?" You only live once hun. And btw..very hot story- d**n...cant wait for that.

Answer 4

Make out with here Dahh! Life's too short, have fun!

Answer 5

Last time you hooked up with her you were in a relationship as you are now. It didn't stop you then.... You already now where this could lead to, is it worth it?